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Tripletrouble posted 12/2/2013 17:38 PM

Wow, 7 months and 5 days after I found the incriminating phone records, it is all over. I was a good wife. I am a great mom. I am smart, funny, loyal, kind, and generous*. I am good with money, and I have a respectable job in my field. We have two honors students teens that are well adjusted. He threw away this charmed life, his loving wife, the respect of his children, and more than half of his assets for some skanky whores. I hope he cries into his lonely pillow nightly and that his house reeks of shame and lies.
I tried R. He could not stop lying and raged against me. I am glad I tried though, because I will never have to wonder if I did the right thing, if I walked away too soon. It gave him four more months to show me how messed up he is.
Thanks for all the support, SI friends.

* footnote: I have bad hair days, get in bad moods, swear too much, and have some annoying habits

nowiknow23 posted 12/2/2013 17:41 PM

Onward you go, triple!

Lola7 posted 12/2/2013 17:47 PM

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!

sunsetslost posted 12/2/2013 17:53 PM

Don't look back. Congrats!

MakingLemonade posted 12/2/2013 18:49 PM

Your best years are ahead! Congrats!

lifestoshort posted 12/2/2013 18:55 PM

congrats on your D. I hope it brings you some peace

phmh posted 12/2/2013 20:14 PM

Congratulations.

It seems like many of these waywards were living charmed lives and threw it all away for trash.

The good news is that it mostly (with some dips) only goes up from here!

dmari posted 12/2/2013 20:30 PM

Congratulations!!! I love your post too! Enjoy your new beginning!

tesla posted 12/2/2013 21:21 PM

Welcome to your new beginning!

h0peless posted 12/2/2013 21:30 PM

Congratulations on losing all of that useless weight! I think you'll be amazed to see what you can do without all of that wasted flesh holding you back.

jemimapd posted 12/2/2013 21:32 PM

I could have written every word. I just know that you are going to thrive once the initial shock wears off. We put so much energy and focus into these men who are fundamentally absent, selfish and immature.

(((TripleTrouble)))

RavenWood posted 12/2/2013 21:52 PM

Congratulations. I hope the future brings you happiness.

Pass posted 12/2/2013 22:22 PM

You have a great attitude, Trip. Congratulations!

5454real posted 12/2/2013 22:32 PM

and have some annoying habits

Am I the only one thinking that I have a childish opinion of fidelity? Of course this is enough for an affair!

I am so sorry TT. You deserve so much better! Congrats!

WeepingBuddhist posted 12/3/2013 06:46 AM

Congratulations!!!

ChoosingHope posted 12/3/2013 08:47 AM

I LOVE your post!!! Congratulations.

TrustGone posted 12/3/2013 10:17 AM

Welcome to your new beginning!!!! I hope the future only holds good things for you and your children. (((HUGS)))

Nature_Girl posted 12/3/2013 10:24 AM

Congrats! Welcome to the other side.

jackfish posted 12/3/2013 10:30 AM

All the best there Triple!

hexed posted 12/3/2013 11:06 AM

bad hair days are a bitch!

I recommend a good afternoon at a nice salon to help with those

Congratulations