A year ago, I found out about OW #1 of about 9 that I know of. It took about 6 months to find out MOST of what I already knew, by confronting him. I still figured more out just yesterday. Another Dday. Just yesterday, a year after Dday #1. Never once, did he come to me feeling bad enough to confess. I told him I could forgive one time, or heck, even one girl, but 9OW in a 3 year time span while I was working and having his babies.
Does the pain of being alone get better?? I have two very small children. It's very difficult to take care of them, work, and support them on my own. I can do it, no doubt, but it's only been about a week and a half.
Any advice for this seperated newbie??