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phmh (original poster member #34146) posted at 4:45 AM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
Or, reversary, as someone else called it once here -- reversing the damage that being married to an NPD/ASPD did to me!
If you'd told me two years ago what my life would be like and how happy I'd be, I never would have believed it. So glad I didn't follow through on my suicidal thoughts when I figured my life was over without XWH.
Looking forward to see what else the future has in store for me! There is hope, guys. Things get so much better.
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:02 AM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013
Two years was still rough for me, so good on ya! You're doing great. 
I just realized I'm nearly halfway into year 6... and it gets sweeter by the minute.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 12:00 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
That's great news, phmh. I'm so happy for you! You escaped. Not everyone is smart enough to escape. I'm proud of you.
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 4:05 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
So happy you made it through the dark stuff into the light
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
phmh (original poster member #34146) posted at 12:57 AM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013
Thanks, guys.
In the grand scheme of things, I feel pretty lucky in that we didn't have kids and since he's NPD, I no longer exist to him. Plus, he had to move away to get a job. So, NC for well over a year and no fear of running into him anywhere.
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:40 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013
phmh, I've always enjoyed your posts and positive drive. It's amazing how low and hopeless we can feel when d-day hits.
Congrats on freeing yourself from that piece of shit and creating an amazing new life!!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:36 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013
Things get so much better.
Amen. Almost 2 years for me too. I struggle to remember why I held on so tight, why I was so afraid of walking away.
I can only think it was Stockholm Syndrome.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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