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User Topic: New to th NB club
No12turn2
♂ 40996
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey!
It sucks that I'm here but I'm ready to start living my life again. Totally on the D train and my WW could care less.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to NB. Have you given any thoughts to what your NB will bring? Hobbies? Travel? Back to school? Moving?


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26218 | Registered: Aug 2011
No12turn2
♂ 40996
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One step at a time. Just trying to survive and get in a normal flow


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Before you know it, you will be at a dead sprint and enjoying life again!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2512 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4224 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
No12turn2
♂ 40996
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel better now that a choice has been made. Limbo sucks


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
abbycadabby
♀ 27428
Member # 27428
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((No1)))

I feel better now that a choice has been made. Limbo sucks

I'll never forget the peace I felt after I finally made the decision to D. After a halfhearted attempt at R things escalated to the point where I felt I was in limbo again. I hate that feeling.

And welcome!


Posts: 1306 | Registered: Feb 2010
No12turn2
♂ 40996
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel like a phoenix rising from the ashes.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Limbo was the worst. As much as I didn't want to divorce, it felt great once I made the decision and was able to start preparing for the rest of my life. Looking back, I don't know why I fought so hard to stay married. I was the only one fighting for it!

Like you said, one step at a time. Keep moving forward.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4224 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to the NB club No1. Glad to have you here with us NBers!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3236 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, December 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15435 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
macakipa
♀ 33735
Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome! Welcome! Welcome!


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
No12turn2
♂ 40996
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was asked to go have a beer with friends after work and watch the game. One of them happens to be a female that I get along with. I'm excited!


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of them happens to be a female that I get along with. I'm excited!

Slow down there. Go out and have fun, but do not even begin to try to rush into anything right now.


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 13841 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
No12turn2
♂ 40996
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I'm not ready for that. We just like to talk and it will be a group setting. Just friends, honestly.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
PhoenixRising88
♀ 35214
Member # 35214
Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Feel like a phoenix rising from the ashes.

OMG exactly - Which is why I changed my username to what I did when I upgraded!


Me: BS (43)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(50)
D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/2013.

Divorce final 2/10/14.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 434 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
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