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loglyn2 posted 12/5/2013 12:15 PM
after a month of trying to recover from WH A and going through what i thought was full disclosure, now i find out there was a ONS that he did not disclose about 10 years ago. what part of FULL disclosure is confusing??? i have offered the gift of reconciliation and forgiveness and i get spat on with lies. now i am back to square one all over again.
devasted30 posted 12/5/2013 12:55 PM
Welcome to the world of TT's. It happens all the time. My WS TT'd me for months. He says it's because he was afraid if I knew it all, I'd kick him out. He also didn't want to hurt me any more. Even though I begged and pleaded with him and tried to explain that the lies would be multiple wounds on tops of everything else, he still lied. I'm not even sure I know everything now. Remember, he cheated - he lied. It's not going to be easy. They are afraid. Grown men - afraid. Not what we'd expect, but it's the only truth out there that you know for sure. Be patient and expect a lot more to come out over the next few weeks maybe even months. Only a handful of WS will come clean right away. Sad but true.
BeyondBrokenInTN posted 12/5/2013 13:04 PM
My WBF claims he has told me everything - but honestly, there is never any way we know they have told us everything. I'm so sorry. Hugs.