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eyenight (original poster member #39488) posted at 7:43 AM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
I was looking up to see if exs warrant was still active or changed yet. i looked under my name and i have a court date for something different. i was never served papers of going to court. i have court Monday. nothing in my mail about it wtf? I've.called around to find out what it is about and.found out.nothing. I'm going to the court date so i don't.get a.warrant. but i have no outstanding tickets.so i am wondering
macakipa ( member #33735) posted at 4:11 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
eyenight, have you found out anything more?
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 7:25 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
This is really strange...any updates?
Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 7:46 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
What kind of court? Did you call the clerk of that court? The docket gave no info?
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
eyenight (original poster member #39488) posted at 7:55 AM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013
I got the papers in the mail today. i researched the account it. was from when x and i were together. i know i paid it off. so my guess is x used the account since.he had access to it and bought stuff and didn't pay for it. i haven't seen a bill for this company since 2009
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 9:37 PM on Sunday, December 8th, 2013
At least you figured out what it was about. That's the first step. I hope it all works out ok tomorrow.
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
eyenight (original poster member #39488) posted at 3:57 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
I went to court and i am contesting it. i figured it was best. that way maybe i can work on trying to settle with the company for less or at least work on a payment plan
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 10:35 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
How was this debt discharged in the divorce? You should probably see if it was addressed in your divorce (I am thinking not--which is yet another reason to get a very good attorney to make sure everything is covered).
If it was covered in the divorce, how was it addressed? That should be your guideline in how you address it now. Who ran up the charges? If it is your ex and the issue WAS addressed in court, then you could go back to court to settle it.
Either way, if he has access to the account and is using, you need to close it pronto.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
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