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dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 4:40 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
It really was not made very clear to me last month that when my D is finally signed off, it will be RETRO-ACTIVE TO A CERTAIN DATE (which has already passed).
Any one else go through this?
It feels mighty weird!
Weird...but GREAT! 
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
dreamlife (original poster member #8142) posted at 5:33 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
I am going to go D gift shopping for me! 
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 5:45 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
Have fun shopping!
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 7:32 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013
I have no idea. I wonder if anyone else knows?
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
courageous ( member #34477) posted at 2:03 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013
Yes that's true. I was in court in October where a judge granted me my divorce. Then the divorce decree was written.
Four months later we had to stand in front of the judge again regarding the wording of the decre to finally get it signed. My divorce is considered to be in October.
Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.
careerlady ( member #16958) posted at 11:17 PM on Saturday, December 7th, 2013
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 12:10 AM on Sunday, December 8th, 2013
It must depend on the state.
But congrats on already being divorced! I know it's not what you would have ever wanted, but I also know that a fabulous future awaits you!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 4:31 AM on Sunday, December 8th, 2013
By the time I was notified by the state, I was already D for almost 2 months. In NY its when the judge puts his signature on the petition.
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
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