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Very good article to share

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 FightingBack (original poster member #34770) posted at 4:43 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

http://peterfox.com.au/fidelity_healingwounds.pdf

Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

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rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 6:36 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

The thing I disagree with here is the BS having to clean up "their side of the street." The therapist implies fault with the BS. I truly believe that many BS are healthy and have nothing to clean up. (Not me).

Does forgiveness really mean feeling no anger or resentment? If so, it'll never happen for me.

The article does have great points about how to apologize and make restitution.

Thanks for sharing!

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