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lisaloo
♀ 20082
Member # 20082

Posted: 3:32 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013

If it's not going in WHs car, then what's the best place in the house? Ideas?

Me: 33 STBXH: 34 DD: 8
D Day (EA): 6-19-08
D Day #2 (SA): 7-5-10
D Day #3 (EA): 11-8-13
WH moved out: 11-18-13
Moved BACK IN (because the lawyer told him to): 11/29/13.
Filed for Divorce: 12-9-13
In house separation...fun, fun, fun.

Posts: 474 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: AL

gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595

Posted: 4:12 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013

Close to where WH talks on his phone or the computer/ skype.

There's tons of info on this in the "other" forum we have.

Yep, BTDT

[This message edited by gma56 at 4:22 PM, December 6th (Friday)]

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20477 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..

lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003

Posted: 4:24 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013

Be sure to double check the laws in your state concerning this before you try planting a var.

A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 14929 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston

Gemini71
♀ 40115
Member # 40115

Posted: 4:28 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013

Carry the VAR on your person. Record conversations with STBX so when he starts making shit up (you were abusive and calls the cops, etc) you can prove him wrong.

"Better not give in to it. It takes ten times as long to put yourself back together as it does to fall apart.”
― Suzanne Collins, Mockingjay

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 3239 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA

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