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Divorce/Separation :
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 lisaloo (original poster member #20082) posted at 9:32 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

If it's not going in WHs car, then what's the best place in the house? Ideas?

Me: 33 STBXH: 34 DD: 8
D Day (EA): 6-19-08
D Day #2 (SA): 7-5-10
D Day #3 (EA): 11-8-13
WH moved out: 11-18-13
Moved BACK IN (because the lawyer told him to): 11/29/13.
Filed for Divorce: 12-9-13
In house separation...fun, fun, fun.

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:12 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

Close to where WH talks on his phone or the computer/ skype.

There's tons of info on this in the "other" forum we have.

Yep, BTDT

[This message edited by gma56 at 4:22 PM, December 6th (Friday)]

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 10:24 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

Be sure to double check the laws in your state concerning this before you try planting a var.

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 10:28 PM on Friday, December 6th, 2013

Carry the VAR on your person. Record conversations with STBX so when he starts making shit up (you were abusive and calls the cops, etc) you can prove him wrong.

DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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