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User Topic: Post your weekend plans here.
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing exciting for me.
No going to clean, grocery shop, work on my coursework for my online class...and probably catch up on some tv. Yep. Sounds good to me.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

Posts: 40249 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 34146
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pretty low-key.

Hanging out at home tonight -- just finishing dinner and about to get caught up on some more "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" while I furiously knit my friend a scarf (hopefully) to be done before Christmas.

Tomorrow I'm running with a friend, then a basketball game with my dad, a friend, and her husband. Then probably nothing, though another friend wants me to hold 9:30 pm for her so we can go out. I told her I am too old and it's too cold for that!

Sunday I'm running with another friend and then hopefully picking up my bicycle so I can commute on Monday. When I left my driveway to ride to work this morning, I realized the brakes weren't working! Not sure if it's the cold (it was about 10 degrees F here) but figured a tune-up was in order.

And it will go by way too quickly, and then Monday morning comes again :(

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 4472 | Registered: Dec 2011
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The BIG thing is the SEC Championship. Auburn is playing and I have hope they will win (but I am not counting on it -- Mizzou wants to win too!!) I will also be watching the Ohio State/Mich State game and cheering for Mich St. (Sorry Buckeye fans, gotta cheer for what is best for MY team) If they lose then the SEC (hopefully AU) will get to play FSU for the national championship!!!!

Oh, and I have to clean and do some yardwork too ... booo

And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
♀ 24518
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going to go be an elf tomorrow night, and play more with glitter.

Spending tonight in front of a fire, drinking champagne, and cuddling with my SO.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

Posts: 13033 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
♀ 39169
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A run, a swim, some house organizing (still a mess from xh moving out), and with the kids at their dad's - relaxing!!

40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.

Posts: 984 | Registered: May 2013
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No plans tonight or tomorrow. Just catching up on chores, mostly.

Sunday I am going to a hockey game in the afternoon and then going to a Straight No Chaser concert in the evening.

Me: BGF - 36
"They say time is the only healer...
God, I hope that isn't right 'cause right now I'd die to not remember..." - Carly Pearce

Posts: 3325 | Registered: Feb 2010
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, December 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't do much tonight. I'm currently shopping online. Trying to find stuff to buy with my Kohl's cash. SO will be home in about an hour... I better get buying!

Tomorrow, I've got to come up with Sunday school lesson plans. Then, we're going to church. After that, I'm gonna try out Just Dance with my bff while SO finds something to do with her hubby.

Sunday, we've got Sunday school to teach. Then, my parents are coming over to pick up the kids and taking them to a party. I'll drop them back off at XH's after they come home.

It's a pretty low-key weekend. I better enjoy it while I can! I have 3 parties next weekend.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.

Posts: 4796 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I only worked a 1/2 day tonight, so I got to go out for a few beers and listen to some music.

Tomorrow is Zumba and yoga, then...nothing!

Sunday is Victorian Day in downtown Troy; I'm going to try...I hate crowds when I'm alone, so I don't know if I can do it. We'll see...

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
♂ 16953
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Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As its my off week with my son I was supposed to have my friends up to the mountain house for a guy weekend. But the weather messed with those plans. So I'm stuck with a fridge full of beer and snacks, finger foods etc. I guess me and the dog will watch some football and eat like slobs.

You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 6851 | Registered: Nov 2007
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today, I'm taking one of the herd for shots, then doing a holiday home tour with a girlfriend.

Tomorrow, laundry and hibernation.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9168 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today--local Santa Claus parade, picking up skates for GD#1, picking up drycleaning, laundry, prepping a couple of types of cookies to the pre-baking stage, and a Christmas party tonight.

Tomorrow--more cookies, some on-line promo for my art show, a long walk if the weather's acceptable, maybe a movie.

The past few months my weekends have felt like another line of work! This weekend is practically a holiday.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm,, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
♀ 33226
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Snuck out from my self-imposed hibernation to have lunch with DD and get a long-overdue haircut. SOOOOOO much better!

Now back to hibernation.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

Posts: 40249 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night, 2 rounds of Clue with the kids and caught up on 1 show. Today, cleaned up kitchen,bathroom and washed the sheets. Then we went to my Dad's for lunch and a movie at his house. IrishLad went with his brother to the Christmas parade and then turkey tacos for dinner. Tomorrow, finish cleaning the house and find the Christmas tree and decorations.

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
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Default  Posted: 12:45 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I had dinner with my mom (she's in town visiting). Today I went to the gym and that had to set up for attend a preschool/church auction.

Tomorrow I'm going to sleep in, go to brunch with my mom, do a little Christmas shopping and then decorate the tree when the kids come home from XH's house.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 1268 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More Christmas shopping yesterday then cleaning. Dinner with my mom last night.

Today, grocery shopping, a little more cleaning and painting the bathroom that just got remodeled. I will be dead by tonight.

BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

Posts: 3873 | Registered: Jan 2011
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saw John Mayer on Friday night. He was ah-mazing. Phil Phillips opened for him-- also amazing. We sat next to his lead guitarists aunt, super sweet southern lady. She found out I am newly single and of course had to bring him over to introduce us! LOL! Great time.

Had a massage with my best friend on Saturday, followed by shopping. Went to see Catching Fire last night, loved it!

We may not be able to do anything today due to weather (27 degrees here yesterday- last week it was 86!!!) I don't do cold, so this pretty much sucks. Ha!

Have papers to grade and laundry. Going out to lunch heifer heading to the airport to send my best friend back home tonight.

Great weekend so far!!

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

Posts: 3870 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Getting on here on the downward side of the weekend, but here goes.....

Had a "family meeting" with my daughter, SIL, and grandson yesterday about financial shit and the family trust (which I administer since my mom is now officially incompetent and living with me).

My daughter & I weren't crossways, but SIL and grandson thought I was doing......hell, I don't know what. Anyway, we met on neutral ground (my parent's house) and I showed them the legal documents that showed my authority to administer the trust as I see fit to take care of my mom and the property. It was a kind of tense thing, but we got shit hammered out and I think they realize what I'm dealing with now.

In the meantime......when we walked into my parent's house, it became apparent that the furnace wasn't working - we could see our breath.

Oh shit! heaters to keep the water lines from freezing, and I've got to get the furnace people in next week. We haven't had a day above freezing here in over a week. I had left the faucets dripping (thank God) or the water lines would have frozen and broke. I'm watching football, keeping the woodstove stoked, and having a toddy. The Bear had to work all weekend (crap), but we're gonna cut up the doe he bagged last week on his days off. Fresh venison in the 'hood!

Oh, and it snowed. And froze. And snowed....I'm officially sick of winter already. Blech!

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

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