He admitted to 10years of affairs this afternoon when I told him I wanted a divorce since he couldn't be honest with me and I found the second affair.
Hopefully he gets that you won't be his puppet anymore while he does whatever he wants.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
And change the locks after he goes (you can say it is for safety reasons, a woman living on her own...) Right now he is likely in shock, when he thinks things through and consults a lawyer he may change his mind and move back in.
First thing you want to secure is sole use of the house and CS. But for now stay silent:
"Never interrupt the enemy when he is making a mistake!" Bonaparte
eta: you have the option of filing for fault in Delaware... document those facebook exchanges before they disappear - which will be very very soon!
[This message edited by Take2 at 9:12 AM, December 7th (Saturday)]