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User Topic: One way to waste a Saturday morning ...
HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are many ways to spend a Saturday. Whether its cleaning out the garage, going for a round of golf or perhaps heading to the mall, there are the adult ways to spend the day and then, there are the little kid ways to spend the day. Plump up the pillows, turn on the TV and watch your fave cartoons

After sleeping in and cuddling with LF, we enjoyed a white sausage and egg breakfast and then I started with some healthy cooking as I have got Quaker Oat bread in the oven rising.

How are you spending your Saturday?


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crashed on the couch in my jammies, QS next to me, (he's surfing Instagram) jamming out to music, doing some online shopping, and trying to talk myself out of buying another Christmas album.

No breakfast. Just a massive mug of coffee in an ugly blue mug.

We're eventually going to get dressed and go to a craft fair and take the kids to see Santa. Maybe. If we find the courage to leave the safety of the warm house.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sitting at the shop waiting on getting my emissions checked (overdue) and oil changed (even more overdue). Then I have to get the registration done.

This afternoon we are going to get the tree and tomorrow we are having a decorating party.

And tonight I am thinking about taking the kids to see A Christmas Carol at the local theater and community center.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3469 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so damned cold here outside Chicago that I don't want to go do anything. Just sit around and drink coffee and be warm.
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...it feels incredible.

[This message edited by FacePunched at 11:18 AM, December 7th (Saturday)]


I have a competition in me.

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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Working until 2 then going to dinner with a few favorite people.

I don't know HOW I am supposed to stay controlled in my diet when all we do is go out and meet friends and family for food and drink.


ďAnd the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossomĒ
AnaÔs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to the gym and walmart, then took the dog to the vet. Not a lazy or cheap morning for me.

This afternoon, I'm doing a holiday house tour with a girlfriend- that part of the day is just for ME!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cold as sh*t in Iowa too. Sitting on SI until my coffee gets cold. Going to lunch with some friends, and then sugar cookie baking this afternoon!


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm in my cozy clothes. I have laundry going, the house is in mid clean mode (so a disaster). I've walked the dog, checked in at S.I., did some budgeting and, and texted with my sister. This afternoon I am making baked potato soup, walking the dog again and more cleaning. I am thinking there is a nap in there somewhere too



ďWe don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.Ē... Anais Nin

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unfound
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm watching the cats play fight, pretending they're WWE wrestlers and being the commentator to the main event.

OWWW, that had to hurt! Pounce from the ottoman right on his head!

Max seems to be trying to perform the rare, and illegal back legs to the head maneuver!

She's got a catnip mouse! It's pandemonium!

Is he chasing his own tail?

She's got him cornered by the ficus..where are the referees?


I obviously win the "who can best avoid not cleaning house today" award.

Cat wrestling. It's more important than a clean house.


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

the house is in mid clean mode (so a disaster)

I love this. That's what my house is, perpetually. Never filthy, hardly ever spotless. Always, and forever, about a solid hour and a half away from being clean.


I have a competition in me.

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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...where are the referees?

Former pro wrestler here....the referees are NEVER around when you need them, somehow.


I have a competition in me.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sigh. I'm researching for a paper I have to write this weekend for a class. Nearly done with the research. Planning to let it all percolate in my brain (otherwise known as procrastination) while I go do some Christmas shopping for the Adopt-a-family program at our local shelter. Also need to buy some groceries as the cupboard is bare! Laundry and maybe some other chores in there. Happy weekend everyone!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Always, and forever, about a solid hour and a half away from being clean.

Yes!!

Or in my case, I work like mad and the upper level is sparkling clean. By the time I get to the downstairs level and get it in top shape, it's time to do the upstairs again. It's a never ending loop and I have surrendered



ďWe don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.Ē... Anais Nin

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just got done making the brownie tray for the Elves

I still need to do the floors


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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unfound
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I work like mad and the upper level is sparkling clean. By the time I get to the downstairs level and get it in top shape, it's time to do the upstairs again.

yes! it's like they (the heathens that live here) KNOW that I've cleaned, and like a moth to a flame, have to go and muss it up.

I don't think the whole house has been clean at the same time since we did a refi a while back. There was a lot of threatening and sending them out of the house for long periods in order to keep it that way for 12 hours.


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14866 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
HUFI-PUFI
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

unfound - Cat wrestling. It's more important than a clean house.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1kNPIsW-Wg


Donít listen to your head, itís easily confused. Donít listen to your heart, its fickle. Listen to your soul, God doesn't steer you wrong.

Posts: 3285 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Azilda, Northern Ontario
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I worked all morning and now I'm cuddled under blankets with my furbaby.


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No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eating the ninjabread men we made last night....


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

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two2muchpain
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just ordered my last gift for FWH, (While he is out picking up DS and getting us something to eat.), checking out what everyone is doing on F&G on SI while I'm supposed to be finishing decorating the tree!

My family is right every year they tease me about how long it takes me to decorate the tree....and they're right! I started on Monday. But when I'm done it's a damn good looking tree!

Later tonight we're going to see a tribute band, Beatlemania!! Can't wait!


Me:49,at time of A
H: 47,at time of A
M: 23 yrs.
OW:27 at time of A
Admitted to EA and other things: 6/16/10
PA (one night stand,sexting and more: 7/15/10
S:19, SS: 30, SD: 26
R: Currently trying to work it out.

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musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am just waking up from a nice nap and pondering how to fold laundry while the kids are awake (since I slept while they did today). We spent this morning at the church decorating a gingerbread house. And this evening, we will load up, get designer coffee (hot chocolate for the kids) and drive through the local college campus, listening to Christmas music and ooohing and aaaaaahing over 40,000+ luminarias.

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