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Topic: Wait-isn't this...what? smh ;-)
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authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 |  Posted: 4:54 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 |     |
Me to LD: You're so impatient!
LD: I'm not impatient!
Me: Yes, you most certainly are.
LD: I'm not impatient. I just want what I want when I want it!
Me: What? That's the exact definition of impatience!
(Glad he's not impatient!)
 
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54941 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024 | | Posted: 4:56 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Posts: 12846 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 4:59 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
And definitely don't cut my line .
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54941 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 5:31 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Posts: 49745 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 5:38 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
That's not the definition of impatience; it's the definition of a New Yorker 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25051 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 5:54 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Well, that he is for sure  .
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54941 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162 | | Posted: 6:34 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
I've never picked up on any New Yorkness from him
FBH - 45
FWW - 46 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 10 & 15
The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Posts: 45962 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 6:39 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Nah, it's not obvious at all .
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54941 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 6:49 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
This is a complete t/j, but what does SMH mean? I always thought it was "Smack My Head"?? As in, "Doh!".
End t/j.
Posts: 12215 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
kernel
♀ 27035
Member # 27035 | | Posted: 6:51 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Shaking My Head.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Posts: 5379 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 6:54 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Or scratching my head. Either way.
LD: I'm not impatient. I just want what I want when I want it!
Pretty sure I've heard this EXACT statement from my DS. A New Yorker born and raised in Iowa?
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40065 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 7:58 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Class will out, NIK...
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25051 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
unfound
♀ 12802
Member # 12802 | | Posted: 8:59 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
Posts: 14938 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob |
gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823 | | Posted: 9:51 PM, December 7th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Totally hilarious, AN. Pre-all of this life-changing stuff....I called stbx *The Russian*. Because he was ALWAYS *russian* me to do what he wanted, when he wanted it done.
Take a chill pill, LD. Seriously.   [This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 9:51 PM, December 7th (Saturday)]
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 9187 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest |
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