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Topic: Married One Year Ago

movingforward13
♀ 38405
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Posted: 8:34 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013

I got married exactly one year ago to the father of my son and the man who I thought was the love of my life. It was a beautiful wedding, elegantly put together, wonderful food, exquisite wedding cake, photo booth and a very funny officiant whom all the guest loved. Two weeks later, I would find out about my husband busting a condom in med girl, freaking out that she would be pregnant and our lives would change as we knew it.

It has been a really trying year but I am some what healed, now divorced and moving forward.

Thank you SI- I thought this day would be hard for me... but I got off lucky to be done with him, his debt, his selfishness and his passive aggressiveness... Did I mention the emotional incest relationship he has with his mom?
Good luck Med Girl, you saved me.

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 645 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC

phmh
♀ 34146
Member # 34146

Posted: 10:03 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013

Did I mention the emotional incest relationship he has with his mom?

I had this, too. So gross! We're lucky to be away from that.

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 3687 | Registered: Dec 2011

jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528

Posted: 10:42 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013

(((movingforward13)))

Wishing you a new year filled with happiness, love, and laughter.

Posts: 38212 | Registered: Mar 2011

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 11:13 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013

((((movingforward))))

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28192 | Registered: Aug 2011

exhausted lady
♀ 30217
Member # 30217

Posted: 7:35 PM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013

Damn! I'm glad you wiped that dogshit off your shoe and decided to move forward without it!!!

Happy Antiversary, and I hope you have a happy, enjoyable New Beginning!

Yeah, MedGirl probably saved you from years of misery from that assclown!

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado

lifestoshort
♀ 18442
Member # 18442

Posted: 2:11 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013

ugh, well at least you got out after less then a yr and you didnt wait for a 5th or so girl came along. good for you.
best wishes in the future!!

6/07 EX had MANY affairs.
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09

Posts: 732 | Registered: Mar 2008

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