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User Topic: Help Me calm down
♀ 39891
Member # 39891
Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My girls are with the EX this weekend. DD6 calls me just to chat. Her Dad tells her she needs his permission to call me. I found out some information last night that he has hit on two of our kids friends single moms. What a creep.

So I am pretty raw. I told him he was a fucking piece of shit on the phone. And we have a few texts. I think parents should be an open policy. (BUT the I have nothing to hide nor I feel threatened by them calling him. ) he's trying to say I am making it about me. What an asshole.

I need to keep it together for a through the holidays. I need him to sign the special warranty deed for the house that I received in the divorce.

No contact no contact no contact. Stop giving him head space. He's going to be here to drop of the kids soon.

I hate that mother fucker.

He's so fucking broken. He doesn't deserve any of my head space.

Posts: 213 | Registered: Jul 2013
♀ 36099
Member # 36099
Default  Posted: 10:36 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are right no more head space. More importantly DO NOT send text or emails about what you think about him. I have a friend who sent his XW some angry texts and she used it to get a restraining order. It's in place for two years! They have to do all kid transfers at the police station. And they have a child who has a serious medical condition they can't even communicate directly about the child's health issues.

It's all ugly and raw and I'm sorry. ((((monarchwings)))

Me- 55
WH-who cares
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 299 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: I'm surrounded by majestic mountain ranges
♀ 41433
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's gross.
Don't let him in your brain. He doesn't deserve it.

He left me 18 weeks pregnant with twins for another.I am a Licensed Private even happens to us.

Posts: 354 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Canada
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NC and crickets, honey. Self-protection needs to rule the day. Stay strong! ((((monarch))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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♀ 6330
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would talk to your atty about alienation on the whole they need his permission to call you. That would really get me.

Posts: 5485 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago
♀ 25086
Member # 25086
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, December 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Depending on the age, my kids have to ask before using the phone. I have never told them they can't call their dad but they do ask first.

I don't think it's alienation unless he is not allowing them to call at all. Also we need to realize different houses have different rules, and we don't get to set the rules at other people's house.

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