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monarchwings posted 12/8/2013 10:27 AM

My girls are with the EX this weekend. DD6 calls me just to chat. Her Dad tells her she needs his permission to call me. I found out some information last night that he has hit on two of our kids friends single moms. What a creep.

So I am pretty raw. I told him he was a fucking piece of shit on the phone. And we have a few texts. I think parents should be an open policy. (BUT the I have nothing to hide nor I feel threatened by them calling him. ) he's trying to say I am making it about me. What an asshole.

I need to keep it together for a through the holidays. I need him to sign the special warranty deed for the house that I received in the divorce.

No contact no contact no contact. Stop giving him head space. He's going to be here to drop of the kids soon.

I hate that mother fucker.

He's so fucking broken. He doesn't deserve any of my head space.

Elaine2012 posted 12/8/2013 10:36 AM

You are right no more head space. More importantly DO NOT send text or emails about what you think about him. I have a friend who sent his XW some angry texts and she used it to get a restraining order. It's in place for two years! They have to do all kid transfers at the police station. And they have a child who has a serious medical condition they can't even communicate directly about the child's health issues.

It's all ugly and raw and I'm sorry. ((((monarchwings)))

Lostandpregnant posted 12/8/2013 10:45 AM

He's gross.
Don't let him in your brain. He doesn't deserve it.

nowiknow23 posted 12/8/2013 10:48 AM

NC and crickets, honey. Self-protection needs to rule the day. Stay strong! ((((monarch))))

Mousse242 posted 12/8/2013 11:09 AM

I would talk to your atty about alienation on the whole they need his permission to call you. That would really get me.

hummingbird8 posted 12/8/2013 11:44 AM

Depending on the age, my kids have to ask before using the phone. I have never told them they can't call their dad but they do ask first.

I don't think it's alienation unless he is not allowing them to call at all. Also we need to realize different houses have different rules, and we don't get to set the rules at other people's house.

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