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Lost15 posted 12/8/2013 22:49 PM

DS14 spent the night with the inlaws this weekend. Usually I am on edge the entire time he is there because they tell him things that aren't true or that they shouldn't be telling him. When he returns I usually have to "reprogram him." Instead for whatever reason I was at ease and it didn't bother me. I went to his HS to watch a play with my SIL and niece while I was there I look over and inlaws were there to watch their niece in the play. I talked to DS afterwards and he was at inlaws house alone all night. My thought is if they want to see him so badly why didn't at least one of them stay and visit with him instead of going. Idk they are idiots, they whine about not seeing him yet he goes there almost every other weekend at least one day on the weekend. So DS gets home tonight and is talking about staying there, saying I wish I hadn't stayed all night because "I was bored the whole time." Then he says he argued (usually is jokingly but I'm not sure this time) with them about his father. He said that stbxmil told him that his father has done everything for DS and has sacrificed so much for him. DS son said he wanted to say "what are you taking about mom has raised me and done everything for me, she worked when I was a baby and helped put dad through college so that he could be where he is now, and when we moved she stayed at home to help take care of me and has always been there for me." That made me feel good! He also told them to not say anything about me because he won't tolerate it. He then tells me that they put up a picture of stbxh and mow in their house and were going to have a picture made for stbxh. DS has not seen his father since July and has never seen her. This isn't very nice but made me laugh. DS says "dad looks like a fag" I said "DS that is your father, you shouldn't be saying that" DS "but he does mom, he looks like an idiot the way he has changed his hair and he was wearing a football jersey, he doesn't even like football." I love this kid! They also asked him when he was going to go see his father and he answered "not anytime soon" my thought was maybe when he shows he cares and comes and sees me instead of lying about asking me and saying I didn't answer so he didn't. F**king liar! I did put DS straight about that lie. stbxh is not putting him not seeing DS on me! I know this is long winded but just had to post this.

StillLivin posted 12/9/2013 09:04 AM

Guess blood and dirty are thicker.
Good for your son standing up for his awesome Mom.
FTG.
Hey, and Merry Christmas!

Lost15 posted 12/9/2013 23:53 PM

Thank you StillLiving! Merry Christmas to you also!