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Living in this house with that asshole in the guest bedroom is miserable. Seriously...this sucks. I dread either coming home, or him coming home. And DD is just being so...weird about it all...making plans as to which parent gets to tuck her in first each night...being weirdly manic about going to play with first one friend then another...And I think WH is trying to convince DD that shared custody would be ideal for her, so that he can get what he wants (ie no CS), seeing as how DD mentioned to me the other day that she THOUGHT she would spend a week with me and then a week with WH...Also, that jackass is using her to try to get info out of me (DD asked me who her pediatrician was last night...seriously? WTF? That was not a question that DD came up with on her own).

Ugh...Christmas is going to SUCK here. I'm having such a hard time trying to get into the spirit for DD. This is like a special form of torture...no one should have to live with the butthead that is ruining their life. No one.

lisaloo - is it possible he is reading your posts here? the pediatrician's name... that is something that gets raised here when discussing custody, and I can't imagine where else it would come up... I know I'd never have thought of it on my own... Just a thought.

I bet it's the lawyer who told him to move back in that told him to find out the pediatrician's name and seem more "involved"

It's so unfair that he's using DD against you. People without morals can do those kinds of things

I am doing in house separation too and I know how it feels to dread his return. It's sucks! Hugs! One day this small period in our lives will just be an annoying memory.

He won't leave because he is a POS selfish snake in the grass bastard!
I'm sorry, you and your DD deserve so much better.
Hang in there. This too shall pass. At least you know YOU did everything you could to make your marriage work. HE is the complete and utter failure f..ktard!

Careerlady- he admitted that the only reason he came back is because his lawyer told him to...I liked his first lawyer better-the one who was giving him guidance on how to LEAVE THE HOUSE without screwing himself (which essentially makes her a bad lawyer!!).

I seriously just hate this...On the bright side, it seems that WH has finally figured out that I DONT want to talk to him...he's hiding in the guest room while I am home. Nice change.

Just a thought, if WH only wants shared custody to get out of CS, could you offer to waive CS in return for full custody? Not the ideal situation, but maybe something to float by your lawyer.