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User Topic: This sums up how I feel most days
steadfast1973
♀ 24719
Member # 24719
Evil  Posted: 7:33 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw this last night and I thought of all of us on SI. I think any one in the early stages of R feel this way on a daily basis.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 7:38 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10085 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
steadfast1973
♀ 24719
Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The "throw you into a tornado" was my favorite part.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
heartbroken2012
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Member # 38089
Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I so relate...


BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

Posts: 561 | Registered: Jan 2013
stunnedin12
♀ 38141
Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even though wh and I have finally made the decision to work toward R - I totally get the post!


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure

Posts: 519 | Registered: Jan 2013
painfulpast
♀ 41038
Member # 41038
Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Perfect!!!


The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends

Posts: 1898 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
Jesu
♂ 36422
Member # 36422
Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL


Me: BSO 39
Her: WSO 29
Together: 9 years
Married?: No
Children?: No
OM: A friend of a friend
DD#1: June 18th 2012
Many more DD after TT
PA#1: 1 week in Nov/Dec 2010, which led to a long distance EA
R: ?

Posts: 608 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Oz
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
ladycody
♀ 41401
Member # 41401
Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this!!!


Me 47
WS 41
M=16 years

Posts: 130 | Registered: Nov 2013
meplusfour
♀ 38958
Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 399 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
gotmylifeback
♂ 32693
Member # 32693
Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But wouldnt throwing them into the tornado put out the fire? There were times where I would have rather let the fire burn while I pulled out a coathanger and some marshmallows.


Her-Unremorseful, Wayward ex wife
Me-No longer a betrayed husband

Happily remarried.

"You are what you do. A man is defined by his actions, not his memory." - Kuato in Total Recall


Posts: 598 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: between Oz and Wonderland
loglyn2
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Member # 41396
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent post! I feel this way every minute of every day.


Me-BS 37
Him-WS 42
Married/together for 20 years
2 kids
exiting the freak show

Posts: 52 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: United States
steadfast1973
♀ 24719
Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, it would put out the fire, we can let them burn a bit before throwing them into the tornado.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2286 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
overandone
39162
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup, count me in ...


Me - BW (54)
Him - fWS (61)
kiddies - daughters 22 and 27,son 22,
d-day - April 18 2012
R - but lots of bumps in the long road

Posts: 235 | Registered: May 2013 | From: uk
PinkJeepLady
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Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

EXACTLY my sentiments!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

Posts: 504 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
BrokenMomof2
♀ 41219
Member # 41219
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it!


Me: BS, 30
Him: WH, 31, 1 month EA & PA
Married 9 years
Kids: 2 perfect boys
D-day: Nov 3, 2013
Working on R

Posts: 86 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: ND
nekorb
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Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel like *I* have been set on fire and thrown in a tornado….


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
julesinpain
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Member # 36746
Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow!! Sums it up for me most days too! Thanks this is funny. Or not I guess


Me 45
WH 47
DDay 1 8/22/08
DDay 2 9/22/10
DDay 3 12/22/10 same OW each time. (so called friend)
To many TT's to count, last one Jan. 2013 ugh!
Married 23 years, together 25
4 amazing children, 2DS 2DD
He crossed boundaries again!

Posts: 170 | Registered: Sep 2012
lostinthesouth
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Member # 41377
Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yes!! me daily!!

Posts: 115 | Registered: Nov 2013
EZ24get
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nekorb~

I feel like *I* have been set on fire and thrown in a tornado….

...me too.


Told my request was one so unlike being you. Then, was punished for asking, by watching you become all that I needed, for someone new.
...so,..he traded my heart,for a hard-on.

BW~ me 38
CH~ he 39
20 years on 12/12/12
2 kiddos~ 15&18
D-day 1


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