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steadfast1973 (original poster member #24719) posted at 1:33 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
I saw this last night and I thought of all of us on SI. I think any one in the early stages of R feel this way on a daily basis. 
Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 1:38 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
steadfast1973 (original poster member #24719) posted at 1:40 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
The "throw you into a tornado" was my favorite part.
Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"
heartbroken2012 ( member #38089) posted at 1:51 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
BS(Me)
WH(Him)
OW - (former co worker of WH)
Dday: Dec 2012
stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 1:57 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Even though wh and I have finally made the decision to work toward R - I totally get the post!
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 1:57 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband
Jesu ( member #36422) posted at 2:02 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Me: BSO 39
Her: WSO 29
Together: 9 years
Married?: No
Children?: No
OM: A friend of a friend
DD#1: June 18th 2012
Many more DD after TT
PA#1: 1 week in Nov/Dec 2010, which led to a long distance EA
R: ?
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:04 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
ladycody ( member #41401) posted at 2:21 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
meplusfour ( member #38958) posted at 5:55 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."
gotmylifeback ( member #32693) posted at 6:12 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
But wouldnt throwing them into the tornado put out the fire? There were times where I would have rather let the fire burn while I pulled out a coathanger and some marshmallows.
Her-Unremorseful, Wayward ex wife
Me-No longer a betrayed husband
Happily remarried.
"Even a dead fish will go with the flow. Don't be a dead fish." - my pastor.
loglyn2 ( member #41396) posted at 6:14 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Excellent post! I feel this way every minute of every day.
Me-BS 37
Him-WS 42
Married/together for 20 years
2 kids
exiting the freak show
steadfast1973 (original poster member #24719) posted at 11:18 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Yeah, it would put out the fire, we can let them burn a bit before throwing them into the tornado.
Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"
overandone ( member #39162) posted at 11:21 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Me - BW (54)
Him - fWS (61)
kiddies - daughters 22 and 27,son 22,
d-day - April 18 2012
15 years on/off LTA
R - but lots of bumps in the long road
PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 11:28 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
EXACTLY my sentiments!
Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing
BrokenMomof2 ( member #41219) posted at 12:31 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
Me: BS, 30
Him: WH, 31, 1 month EA & PA
Married 9 years
Kids: 2 perfect boys
D-day: Nov 3, 2013
Working on R
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 12:31 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
I feel like *I* have been set on fire and thrown in a tornado….
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
julesinpain ( member #36746) posted at 12:33 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
Wow!! Sums it up for me most days too! Thanks this is funny. Or not I guess 
Me 45
WH 47
DDay 1 8/22/08
DDay 2 9/22/10
DDay 3 12/22/10 same OW each time. (so called friend)
To many TT's to count, last one Jan. 2013 ugh!
Married 23 years, together 25
4 amazing children, 2DS 2DD
Things are looking up!
lostinthesouth ( member #41377) posted at 1:40 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
yes!! me daily!! 
EZ24get ( member #29752) posted at 3:11 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
nekorb~
I feel like *I* have been set on fire and thrown in a tornado….
...me too.
Told my request was one so unlike being you. Then, was punished for asking, by watching you become all that I needed, for someone new.
...so,..he traded my heart, for a hard-on.
BW~ me 44
CH~ he 45
2 kiddos~ 22 & 24
A-bombed Oct2010
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