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User Topic: vitamins, meds, and nonsense -
stunnedin12
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Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As wh and I were making our breakfast this morning I had the totally random thought that, as far as I have been told, the morning routine we share is not something he shared with OW. I mean, it is certainly NOT exciting, romantic, or out of this world fun to be standing at the counter half awake opening a bottle of fish oil, thyroid medicine, cholesterol medicine or vitamins specifically for men over 50!

Wh and I are in a semi-decent place so I'm not going to bring that random thought up to him, but it did make me chuckle inside!


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure

Posts: 606 | Registered: Jan 2013
HoneyMe
♀ 40613
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

True love includes taking care of someone. It is wanting what is best for someone else. It is wanting them to be a good person. It is wanting them to be honest and full of integrity.

Of course that was not part of their affair.

I love our morning coffee time. Enjoy yours.


3 A's
Blinded-sided DD 9/2011
Again 11/2011 and then more truth the next day. Separated 4 months. 2012, the year of truth and reconciliation.

Posts: 76 | Registered: Sep 2013
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the way your thoughts work.

I was checking his back for acne this morning.

Bet they didn't share that either.

I chuckled as well.
Aw the romance :)


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 40
Him- FWS 36
15 years
DD- 14 and DS- 13
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
full truth: November 14, 2013
A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC
Working on R

Posts: 801 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I was ready to leave for work while he had just barely started to get moving. So before he got into the shower I asked if we could pray together (as is normal for us) so I could leave. He embraced me, snuggled into me, and then quietly asked if I thought that his morning breath was too nasty to pray with.

Completely cracked me up. Oh yeah, share THAT with some OW!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5922 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Zayda1
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha, ya pretty sure OW didn't put plantar wart meds on him like I do, or wash his underwear, or take pictures of the top of his head every couple of months so he could see if his hair growth meds were working


Married 10 years, together for 12 years
2 children (8 years & 5 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)

Posts: 478 | Registered: Apr 2012
TheAmazingWondertwin
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brought him a trash can to vomit into while He sat on the toilet because it was coming out both ends.
Yah- that's love.

Sorry for the graphics- but... You know, we do a lot.

[This message edited by TheAmazingWondertwin at 7:40 AM, December 10th (Tuesday)]


Everyday is a new day, some good, some bad.
Me- BS 40
Him- FWS 36
15 years
DD- 14 and DS- 13
DDay- 07-24-2013
NC broken from August 6- 24, 2013
full truth: November 14, 2013
A: June 10th to Dday- with broken NC
Working on R

Posts: 801 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: East Coast
stunnedin12
♀ 38141
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah, I just knew people would understand here!

I know one of wh reasons behind the affair was the excitement and all - but you know....

sometimes it is that day to day CARING we need to remember!


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure

Posts: 606 | Registered: Jan 2013
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