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stunnedin12 (original poster member #38141) posted at 2:03 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
As wh and I were making our breakfast this morning I had the totally random thought that, as far as I have been told, the morning routine we share is not something he shared with OW. I mean, it is certainly NOT exciting, romantic, or out of this world fun to be standing at the counter half awake opening a bottle of fish oil, thyroid medicine, cholesterol medicine or vitamins specifically for men over 50!
Wh and I are in a semi-decent place so I'm not going to bring that random thought up to him, but it did make me chuckle inside!
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
HoneyMe ( member #40613) posted at 4:49 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
True love includes taking care of someone. It is wanting what is best for someone else. It is wanting them to be a good person. It is wanting them to be honest and full of integrity.
Of course that was not part of their affair.
I love our morning coffee time. Enjoy yours.
3 A's
Blinded-sided DD 9/2011
Again 11/2011 and then more truth the next day. Separated 4 months. 2012, the year of truth and reconciliation.
TheAmazingWondertwin ( member #40769) posted at 4:49 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
I love the way your thoughts work.
I was checking his back for acne this morning.
Bet they didn't share that either.
I chuckled as well.
Aw the romance :)
Just call me Wonder
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.
The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.
Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:23 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Yeah, I was ready to leave for work while he had just barely started to get moving. So before he got into the shower I asked if we could pray together (as is normal for us) so I could leave. He embraced me, snuggled into me, and then quietly asked if I thought that his morning breath was too nasty to pray with.
Completely cracked me up. Oh yeah, share THAT with some OW! 
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Zayda1 ( member #35387) posted at 10:13 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013
Ha, ya pretty sure OW didn't put plantar wart meds on him like I do, or wash his underwear, or take pictures of the top of his head every couple of months so he could see if his hair growth meds were working 
Married 10 years, together for 12 years
2 children (9 years & 6 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)
TheAmazingWondertwin ( member #40769) posted at 1:40 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
Brought him a trash can to vomit into while He sat on the toilet because it was coming out both ends.
Yah- that's love.
Sorry for the graphics- but... You know, we do a lot.
[This message edited by TheAmazingWondertwin at 7:40 AM, December 10th (Tuesday)]
Just call me Wonder
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.
The axe "forgets"- the tree remembers.
Divorced and super good with tha
2 DS- 15 and 16
DDay 1- 07-24-2013
DDay 2- June something or other 2017
stunnedin12 (original poster member #38141) posted at 5:21 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
Ah, I just knew people would understand here!
I know one of wh reasons behind the affair was the excitement and all - but you know....
sometimes it is that day to day CARING we need to remember!
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
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