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User Topic: Hahaha.... idiot
♀ 36060
Member # 36060
Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So it looks like XH, straining under the weight of his support obligations, may have to sell the former marital home. He may move in with OW (him: "who knows if that will even happen"). He assures me that the kids will have rooms, as OW has 5 bedrooms but only 2 kids. On an unrelated note, XH recently traded in the former marital giant SUV (from when we had 3 kids in car seats), the affair car "skankmobile" for a compact car. It fits the kids, now that 2 are in boosters, but XH needed OW to cosign. Because she is a moron, she did.

Maybe because I'm sick, maybe because I am stressed by a huge case at work, or maybe because him moving in with her is a trigger, I went on an unholy text rant this morning. He calls me this evening, purportedly to ask about the kids (they've been sick). He then apologizes if he said something that "triggered" me (the hell?? You stopped pretending to R long ago, it's like namedropping), said he'd been so happy we haven't been fighting, and that if indeed he is fucked when OW leaves him (what with the house and car), **we** will deal with that when the time comes. Who the fuck is this "we"?? What dreamland is he living in that he thinks I would help him? What exactly does he think this last year has been about?

BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 751 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
♀ 34373
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even after all they do and say, they think that we will still be there for them.

Funny how it's "we" when he needs/wants something.

Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
♀ 40115
Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Apparently he's using the royal 'we'. It never ceases to amaze me how WSs don't understand that D means it's OVER.

One day
I'm gonna forget your name,
And one sweet day,
you're gonna drown in my lost pain. - "Sweet Sacrifice" by Evanescence

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Posts: 3391 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
♀ 34823
Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, December 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

**we** will deal with that when the time comes. Who the fuck is this "we"??

Ha.Ha.Ha. That is actually really funny.

There ain't no *we* in d-i-v-o-r-c-e-d.

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

Posts: 9188 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

it's like namedropping

Oh, my ribs.

Maybe he didn't get the memo...

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6004 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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