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Wayward Side :
The real Why?

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 nevergiveup10 (original poster member #41537) posted at 4:09 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013

I feel like I have an understanding of why I did what I did, but it seems fragmented and tough to assemble into something someone else would understand. Is there typically a Eureka moment when it really hits you or is this the path to the why? Deep, introspective searching and growth?

WH 39
BS 34
D-Day July 15, 2013
Together 10 years
Three great boys 8,5 & 2
Working on R

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confetticheck ( new member #38676) posted at 4:47 AM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013

I think its a path.

There's so many facets to our personalities, I found some shined brighter on some days and I thought I was having a Eureka moment and then the next day it was different. I guess they're all important, and I don't forget them, but it takes time to put them in context.

I feel alot better going through the process, alot better than I have in a long time.

I didn't need to before because I had all the answers! LOL

It ain't ever over, and that's ok.

Me - WH
Her - BW
Married 20 yrs, 3 kids
DDay - 17 Nov '12 (5 month PA)

Life's tough, it's tougher when your stupid.

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 nevergiveup10 (original poster member #41537) posted at 5:14 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013

Ok, that helps me put it in perspective.

You said it so well, I too had all the answers before. Learning everyday is very enlightening.

WH 39
BS 34
D-Day July 15, 2013
Together 10 years
Three great boys 8,5 & 2
Working on R

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