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I feel like I have an understanding of why I did what I did, but it seems fragmented and tough to assemble into something someone else would understand. Is there typically a Eureka moment when it really hits you or is this the path to the why? Deep, introspective searching and growth?

I think its a path.
There's so many facets to our personalities, I found some shined brighter on some days and I thought I was having a Eureka moment and then the next day it was different. I guess they're all important, and I don't forget them, but it takes time to put them in context.

I feel alot better going through the process, alot better than I have in a long time.
I didn't need to before because I had all the answers! LOL

It ain't ever over, and that's ok.

Ok, that helps me put it in perspective.

You said it so well, I too had all the answers before. Learning everyday is very enlightening.