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livebythesea (original poster member #38900) posted at 1:02 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
I'm at the point where I find myself putting the blame on myself. "It must be me". I was not a very "loving wife" to him. Why can't I just forget the whole thing, forgive him, and move forward. For minutes, I'm good, going to move forward, then, I find myself back in the same hole. Back to square one ... the past, all the years of unhappiness, the stress, staring to feel angry, and a bit sorry for myself.
Me - 65 I often have to remind myself of my age! Husband - 65 DD1 April 5 2013 (a lie)DD2 April 23 2013DD3 June 22 20133 children 5 grandchildren
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 1:10 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
(((hugs)))
You cannot take years of unhappiness and make it go away in a matter of months...
It takes years to get through this, really, years.
What steps are you both taking in order to help you heal?
Are you getting IC, being good to yourself?
Be easy on you, it's a slow process.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
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