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livebythesea posted 12/10/2013 07:02 AM
I'm at the point where I find myself putting the blame on myself. "It must be me". I was not a very "loving wife" to him. Why can't I just forget the whole thing, forgive him, and move forward. For minutes, I'm good, going to move forward, then, I find myself back in the same hole. Back to square one ... the past, all the years of unhappiness, the stress, staring to feel angry, and a bit sorry for myself.
karmahappens posted 12/10/2013 07:10 AM
(((hugs)))
You cannot take years of unhappiness and make it go away in a matter of months...
It takes years to get through this, really, years.
What steps are you both taking in order to help you heal?
Are you getting IC, being good to yourself?
Be easy on you, it's a slow process.