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User Topic: Divorce paperwork and timeline
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guess today is my posting day.

I am in CA. Had settlement meeting 4 months ago. I have handwritten agreement. STBXH lawyer should be doing the official paperwork.

Am I correct in thinking the document is typed up. Passed along to both parties to sign, then sent into the court for it to be filed and official?

I have not gotten anything yet? And a couple of months ago at modification hearing I heard STBXH lawyer tell him (when he yelled when is this going to be done/over with) that it can take months to get stuff back from the courts because of backlog. But shouldn't I have gotten something typed up to sign before it went to the courts for filing?

WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our jurisdiction has a website where you can look up filed documents. Does yours have something similar or can you call his lawyer to ask about it?

Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

Posts: 224 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im not sure you will get anything. you may have to call them to pay for copies or request thru the courts. I didnt get anything when I did my last D prose. so if I want anything, I have to go into court and pay $1.50 per page

when you use a lawyer, you should get everything promptly

6/07 EX had MANY affairs.
FALSE Reconciles. cheats again. D 5/09. 2 kids. I have 100% custody of. ex rarely sees.
2017: still trying to pick pieces up

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