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Dark Inertia posted 12/10/2013 14:44 PM
My ex sent me a happy b-day text. I started to reply with an indifferent "thanks" and then all the anxiety, bitterness, and hurt came flooding back. I thought "too much pain" and deleted it. It has been almost 6 years. He is remarried and I am happily engaged. Should I reply, even with something as small as "thanks"?
DeadMumWalking posted 12/10/2013 15:32 PM
Should I reply, even with something as small as "thanks"?
In a word - No. He's not your friend.
I'm sorry you are hurting/triggering from that. 
But: happy birthday to you!!
((((DI))))
SBB posted 12/10/2013 15:37 PM
Hell.No.
What a jerk trying to sully your day like this. FTG.
There are no fish in this pond.
This pond has no water.
Fuck off.
[This message edited by SBB at 3:38 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)]
pregnantandsad posted 12/10/2013 16:36 PM
He's not worth a reply.
Happy Birthday, enjoy your day!