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User Topic: Happy b-day
Dark Inertia
30727
Member # 30727
Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage
My ex sent me a happy b-day text. I started to reply with an indifferent "thanks" and then all the anxiety, bitterness, and hurt came flooding back. I thought "too much pain" and deleted it. It has been almost 6 years. He is remarried and I am happily engaged. Should I reply, even with something as small as "thanks"?
Posts: 1842 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage
Should I reply, even with something as small as "thanks"?

In a word - No. He's not your friend.

I'm sorry you are hurting/triggering from that.

But: happy birthday to you!!

((((DI))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 23, 23, 19
M: 28 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 33
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Posts: 6290 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage
Hell.No.

What a jerk trying to sully your day like this. FTG.

There are no fish in this pond.
This pond has no water.
Fuck off.

[This message edited by SBB at 3:38 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)]

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 6003 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
pregnantandsad
♀ 40141
Member # 40141
Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage
He's not worth a reply.

Happy Birthday, enjoy your day!

M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD5 & DD 1 1/2
D-Day 7/2013 - Divorced!
Posts: 160 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: California
Topic Posts: 4

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