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Dark Inertia (original poster member #30727) posted at 8:44 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
My ex sent me a happy b-day text. I started to reply with an indifferent "thanks" and then all the anxiety, bitterness, and hurt came flooding back. I thought "too much pain" and deleted it. It has been almost 6 years. He is remarried and I am happily engaged. Should I reply, even with something as small as "thanks"?
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:32 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
Should I reply, even with something as small as "thanks"?
In a word - No. He's not your friend.
I'm sorry you are hurting/triggering from that. 
But: happy birthday to you!!
((((DI))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 9:37 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
Hell.No.
What a jerk trying to sully your day like this. FTG.
There are no fish in this pond.
This pond has no water.
Fuck off.
[This message edited by SBB at 3:38 PM, December 10th (Tuesday)]
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
pregnantandsad ( member #40141) posted at 10:36 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
He's not worth a reply.
Happy Birthday, enjoy your day!
M 7 years, together for 12
2 kids- DD5 & DD 1 1/2
D-Day 7/2013 - Divorced!
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