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Topic: Tough day..
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LadyQ
♀ 32847
Member # 32847 |  Posted: 5:11 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 |     |
My nephew, who was just 25 years old, committed suicide. He had just spent time with family at Thanksgiving and seemed fine. I guess it goes to show how you just never know.
Hug your loved ones tight 
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003 | | Posted: 5:19 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'm so sorry for your loss LadyQ
A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.
Posts: 13946 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston |
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101 | | Posted: 5:19 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((ladyq))))
That is so painful I can't imagine. I hope your family and you can find some peace from happy memories at this time.
Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy
Posts: 9038 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis |
selkiescot
♀ 23777
Member # 23777 | | Posted: 5:41 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
OH i am so sorry to hear that. May he find peace and love in the light.
The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.
Posts: 1411 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: CT |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 5:52 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((LadyQ and family)))
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Posts: 11808 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 5:55 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 24933 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
LeftBehind08
♀ 38705
Member # 38705 | | Posted: 6:54 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
hugs. Absolute sadness. My prayers to his family and yours.
Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt
Posts: 84 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington |
movingforward777
♀ 6850
Member # 6850 | | Posted: 8:51 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Sorry for your loss...HUGS
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
Posts: 4847 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario |
Grace and Flowers
♀ 34431
Member # 34431 | | Posted: 10:35 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I'm so sorry for your loss. Incomprehensible.
A few years ago there was a local obit with a picture of a young man/older teenager. It said that his parents requested that in lieu of flowers or donations, you give your kids hug every day. That's been up on my fridge ever since.
I'm Happy, not Sad!
Posts: 1231 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US |
worried_lady
♀ 27605
Member # 27605 | | Posted: 10:37 PM, December 10th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I am so sorry.
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly.
Posts: 489 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Texas |
hurting2much
♀ 25643
Member # 25643 | | Posted: 8:22 AM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((((ladyQ))))))))). So very sorry.
Divorced
Posts: 1110 | Registered: Sep 2009 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 8:59 AM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((LadyQ & family)))
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. 
Posts: 37485 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 4:59 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((((LadyQ and family))))) I am so very sorry.
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman
Posts: 27031 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
StillLivin
♀ 40229
Member # 40229 | | Posted: 5:11 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((LadyQ)))
Suicide is the worst tragedy. I'm sorry for you and your family and wish you weren't experiencing this.
I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014
Posts: 2638 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 5:57 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((((LadyQ)))))))
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5904 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 6:13 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
(((((((LadyQ))))))))
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your nephew.
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 45888 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468 | | Posted: 9:43 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I'm so sorry LadyQ - that is heartbreaking.
Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 4780 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas |
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698 | | Posted: 9:48 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
I'm so sorry. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers tonight.
(((LadyQ)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3685 | Registered: Oct 2011 |
PricklePatch
♀ 34041
Member # 34041 | | Posted: 10:38 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Very sad thing to go through. So sorry.
BS
Fwh
My tablet does random word corrections
Posts: 445 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: pricklepatch |
lynnm1947
♀ 15300
Member # 15300 | | Posted: 8:22 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013 | |
I'm so sorry, LadyQ. Suicide is always sad, but somehow just before Christmas, it just seems so much sadder. A young man (46--young to me)who worked for me in the early years of my former business committed suicide last week. His elderly parents are devastated. I wouldn't be surprised if they pass away in the next year just from shock and grief, broken hearts. Suicide fixes things for the committer; it creates a whole new set of problems for the poor people left behind. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
Posts: 7597 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada |
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