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User Topic: First collections nightmare
betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I learned a big lesson, I've been trying for the last three and a half months to collect on a past due balance from a customer of my soaping business. Never again will I extend credit to someone. It's frustrating to say the least and I feel taken advantage of and disrespected.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 888 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
EvenKeel
♀ 24210
Member # 24210
Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was on the Board of Directors for a local company. Collecting those "uncollectibles" was a nightmare. It cost more to take it to the magistrate than you could even recoup so many people just got away with not paying.

Very frustrating!

My parents use to have a business as well. It was amazing who did not pay. It was typically not the people who struggled to make ends meet. They were very conscious, even if they had to make mini-payments....it was the folks in that big old mansion driving their yachts to work (ok....maybe I over exaggerating to protect the guilty at tad)

[This message edited by EvenKeel at 2:59 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)]


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2274 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10153 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10153 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
tushnurse
♀ 21101
Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Collections is a nightmare regardless.
I learned that running the surgeons office.

My H did take pity on some redneck lady this fall that had bees inbetween the first and second floor of her house with honey dripping through the ceiling, and allowed her to pay late, and she of course attempted to dupe us. His degree is finance, and he worked for high risk loan place when he got out of school so he was all over it, and she magically had the funds for us when he presented with some sort of scary file for lein on property or something. LOL.

I let him handle it.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8898 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Topic Posts: 5

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