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iwillNOT posted 12/11/2013 16:15 PM

Well, it has taken me a while to get here, but my WH and I have finally committed to R! Actually, he has wanted it all along, but I have been balanced on the fence. It's been four months of watching his actions, processing through the hemorrhaging-pain-continuously-everywhere stage, checking and checking and checking again...

I finally feel comfortable making the commitment to work on our marriage and move forward from here. I still have bad days and am still riding the roller coaster, and I know that will continue for some time. But, I feel happy with this decision. Today at MC we talked about me being ready and about my requirements for R. All went well, so...onwards!

[This message edited by iwillNOT at 7:13 PM, December 11th (Wednesday)]

TheAmazingWondertwin posted 12/11/2013 16:32 PM

That's wonderful news! I am so happy to hear that you took your time and made certain It was what you wanted.
It sounds like you are in a good place.
Welcome fellow poster!!

sisoon posted 12/11/2013 18:49 PM

unfound posted 12/11/2013 19:20 PM


Skan posted 12/11/2013 20:57 PM

Welcome! I'm happy that you're here!

iwillNOT posted 12/11/2013 21:55 PM

Thanks guys! I am happy to be moving forward, finally! And scared too, if I am honest. Lots to risk.

I choose to try. I hope he proves to me that it was the right decision.

HardenMyHeart posted 12/11/2013 23:02 PM

I am happy for you and your H. Welcome!

karmahappens posted 12/12/2013 10:10 AM


It can be frightening, but any risk is.

Just go slow, continue to talk together and mend fences.

Listen to your gut, know when you need something it's ok to ask.

And always be true and good to you.

We are all here, there will be bumps, but it can lead to a wonderful new life.


JanaGreen posted 12/12/2013 10:26 AM

Welcome and good luck ((HUGS))

lordhasaplan? posted 12/12/2013 10:29 AM

Welcome to the bumpy neverending process of R. we are all here for each other.

iwillNOT posted 12/12/2013 14:15 PM

Thanks for the welcome and all the kind words

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