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Newest Member: Heartectomy (49835)

User Topic: Just a Follow-Up
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't posted on here in a few weeks, and the last few days have been really rough. Heart got depressed, then angry, and now she's 'blah' ... meanwhile, I have had three panic attacks in two days, one of which was after getting off work and heading home. Not the best situation to be in, given that I'm trying to pilot a multi-ton vehicle while struggling not to shake nervously or cry.

I got home just fine, though, and Heart's touch has made it bearable. Her wonderful face, her melodious voice ... they soothe me in ways mere medications cannot.

I am so very thankful to have her as a part of my life, and I enjoy spending all the time we can together.

Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 6yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2014/12/23

Posts: 810 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

KBeguile what are you doing to take care of you. Other then Heart what do you do to get past these moments? Nice to see you're still posting and working.

Madhatter. Separated.

"You must try to generate happiness within yourself. If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy anyplace." Ernie Banks

Posts: 3497 | Registered: Oct 2012
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for checking in. Been thinking about you both.

Nothing ever goes away until is has taught us everything we need to know. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 24860 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, December 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I have had that exact same day myself more then once. I wasn't driving though!

BS-Her (Lostinthismess)

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