I haven't spoken to my XH since 2007. While I am glad to have maintained NC for that long, I do admit that every now and then I'd go snooping on social media to see what he was up to. However since I began dating my SO, I have not even done that. Almost 2 years now.
Sometimes I still want to peek. I am petty, and for whatever reason I like to giggle at how bald my XH is getting or how pretentious his writing still is. However I don't go there because part of me feels like snooping on my XH is somehow betraying my current SO.
But dang, some days I get sooooo curious.