After my divorce I read all about boundaries and the fact a second relationship too quickly can cause bigger heartbreak than the actual divorce!
I stayed away from most people on a daily basis. Now I am trying to get my feet underneath me and I feel different.
I can't tell if it is me or the different people or being an adult. For example I know I don't like it when people are rude to the waiter but I figure it is me being over sensitive. But when is it really like that bothers me!
At what point do you get to feel your emotions are real not a by product of this stuff? Do you miss out on things because these same feelings stop you?
I guess in my heart I feel a way but what if it is me wishing like I do that my ex will see the wrong in what he did or is doing but signing up for a group of people who have been used to being rude to wait staff?