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VeryUncertain (original poster member #37845) posted at 7:38 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
WH and I had a nice conversation earlier today and he told me he'd call later. He went out after work for "holiday drinks" with people from his office.
He never called. I finally called him at 11:30. He didn't answer. We are currently apart due to travel. I'm flying home this afternoon. Tomorrow is our youngest's birthday. Of course I can't sleep now. AGAIN.
I'm sure he got drunk and passed out and didn't call. If it were a one time thing, it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But really? How long am I really going to deal with this crap? Do I really leave him with BOTH my kids' birthdays coming up as well as Christmas?
This is just ridiculous. I should probably stop posting in R because obviously this is not working. I feel like I'm running and running on this stupid hamster wheel and expecting it to suddenly turn in a different direction. I guess it's my fault in the end for expecting something different. UGH.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:33 AM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
VeryUncertain,
I'm sorry your WH is not accepting the gift of R that you are offering him. Have you thought about doing the 180?
AN
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
sodamnlost ( member #37190) posted at 12:15 PM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
(((((((HUGS)))))))))
So very sorry you are in this position. It's so hard to admit they are throwing away the gift we are offering. 
Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016
Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 1:18 PM on Thursday, December 12th, 2013
This doesn't sound like a WH who is seriously committed to reconciliation. I do think it is time to implement the 180, also. I am so sorry. (((VeryUncertain)))
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
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