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User Topic: oh effing hell
♀ 37845
Member # 37845
Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH and I had a nice conversation earlier today and he told me he'd call later. He went out after work for "holiday drinks" with people from his office.

He never called. I finally called him at 11:30. He didn't answer. We are currently apart due to travel. I'm flying home this afternoon. Tomorrow is our youngest's birthday. Of course I can't sleep now. AGAIN.

I'm sure he got drunk and passed out and didn't call. If it were a one time thing, it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But really? How long am I really going to deal with this crap? Do I really leave him with BOTH my kids' birthdays coming up as well as Christmas?

This is just ridiculous. I should probably stop posting in R because obviously this is not working. I feel like I'm running and running on this stupid hamster wheel and expecting it to suddenly turn in a different direction. I guess it's my fault in the end for expecting something different. UGH.

Posts: 332 | Registered: Dec 2012
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:33 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I'm sorry your WH is not accepting the gift of R that you are offering him. Have you thought about doing the 180?


"If you want to know who your tribe is, speak your truth, then see who sticks around. Those are the people who get a spot in your blanket fort." -Nanea Hoffman

Posts: 55101 | Registered: Sep 2007
♀ 37190
Member # 37190
Default  Posted: 6:15 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


So very sorry you are in this position. It's so hard to admit they are throwing away the gift we are offering.

Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016

Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

Posts: 772 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Out of the ashes
♀ 30024
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This doesn't sound like a WH who is seriously committed to reconciliation. I do think it is time to implement the 180, also. I am so sorry. (((VeryUncertain)))

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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