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VeryUncertain posted 12/12/2013 01:38 AM

WH and I had a nice conversation earlier today and he told me he'd call later. He went out after work for "holiday drinks" with people from his office.

He never called. I finally called him at 11:30. He didn't answer. We are currently apart due to travel. I'm flying home this afternoon. Tomorrow is our youngest's birthday. Of course I can't sleep now. AGAIN.

I'm sure he got drunk and passed out and didn't call. If it were a one time thing, it wouldn't be that big of a deal. But really? How long am I really going to deal with this crap? Do I really leave him with BOTH my kids' birthdays coming up as well as Christmas?

This is just ridiculous. I should probably stop posting in R because obviously this is not working. I feel like I'm running and running on this stupid hamster wheel and expecting it to suddenly turn in a different direction. I guess it's my fault in the end for expecting something different. UGH.

authenticnow posted 12/12/2013 05:33 AM

VeryUncertain,

I'm sorry your WH is not accepting the gift of R that you are offering him. Have you thought about doing the 180?

AN

sodamnlost posted 12/12/2013 06:15 AM

(((((((HUGS)))))))))

So very sorry you are in this position. It's so hard to admit they are throwing away the gift we are offering.

SisterMilkshake posted 12/12/2013 07:18 AM

This doesn't sound like a WH who is seriously committed to reconciliation. I do think it is time to implement the 180, also. I am so sorry. (((VeryUncertain)))

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