So WW and I are 6 weeks from D-Day 1, 2 weeks from D-day 2 and full truth (God I hope) including FOO.
she has taken full responsibility for the A and the damaged it caused.
has been in IC since D-Day 1
Has initiated NC (still working on full transparency which I know I will need)
We start MC next week
Is showing remorse for actions and is no longer cold shutdown and defensive.
Wants to work on R the M
She has been reading literature on rebuilding the M
Has been home from work on time every night(this was her time to have A)
However I still see times when she doubts R and she says it's because she doesn't think I could love someone who has done this and because she feels she has been unhappy in the M for a long time. ( issues I know we need to address in MC)
I know I want to work on R ( still have moments of doubt but only when is see she is having doubt)
I have been in IC since 3 weeks after D-Day. Doing much better im eating and sleeping better.
Im working on my own issues that I know didn't cause the A's but were factors in a M that was not all it could have been, and they are issues that I want to work on regardless if our M survives.