Last year I was closer to dd and still in some dilusional denial phase. So I muddled through.
This year, I'm into the second year. Haven't decorated, and can't manage to want to. I've bought some gifts and have plans for completing that task.
I really wish it was over. Today I told Finally10 that despite nonstop Hallmark movies running, attending a fabulous cookie decorating seminar, and listening to holiday music, that I just couldn't find any holiday spirit at all. His answer was that we would figure it out. We are running out of time.
I like Karma's suggestions.
It doesn't help that hat would have been a significant wedding anniversary is coming next week and I can't even consider celebrating that.