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User Topic: New help with a retort to OW
Chefj9
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Member # 38604
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I still go and look at OW's FB. She hasn't posted anything in months publicly until today. This is what she posted...

2/12 - thought of the day...

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”
~Mahatma Ghandi

Today is the 2 year date that marks the first time they had sex.

I would never post a retort since we have been in NC since July. It has taken me too long (because I'm stubborn and l have to learn the hard way)to get to this point. But I would love to hear some of my fellow SI'ers wicked sense of humor on this one!

I need something to make me laugh on this most heinous day of the year.


ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 472 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After DD#2 I came to the decision to leave him.
I told him that forgiving him was the easy part, it was respecting him again that I was at a loss for.
Maybe something along those lines could be a possible retort.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2556 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
nomadlady
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll take that Gandhi quote and raise her TWO Gandhi quotes!

"An ounce of practice is worth more than tons of preaching."

"To believe in something, and not live it, is dishonest."


DDay: 2013
In R

Posts: 89 | Registered: Oct 2013
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The weak can never keep their pants zipped. Keeping your pants zipped is the attribute of the strong.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6693 | Registered: Jan 2011
Fireflies
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Member # 40210
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"You can lead a whore to culture, but you can't make her think." Dorothy Parker


Me: BS
Him: WS
Go your way,
I'll take the long way 'round,
I'll find my own way down,
As I should.

Posts: 79 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Grr Argh
Chefj9
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These are priceless.... Love it! Especially the about keeping their pants zipped. Oh how badly I want to post these.... I won't but it would be priceless to shut her ass down!


ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 472 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
nomistakeaboutit
♂ 36857
Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Vengeance is mine, sayeth The Lord.


Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 968 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
prowoman
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The weak can never keep their pants zipped. Keeping your pants zipped is the attribute of the strong.

If it were the OW in my situation I'd be tempted to post something like "Then you'll forgive me for saying you're a slimy fucking skank who has so little self-respect and self-worth that she has to go after a middle-aged married man who's only now with her because his wife kicked his poor ass onto the street because he's tainted now that he's been in you."

[This message edited by prowoman at 1:56 PM, December 12th (Thursday)]


Posts: 131 | Registered: Sep 2013
Cabot
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"One man cannot do right in one department of life whilst he is occupied in doing wrong in any other department. Life is one indivisible whole."

-Gandhi




Posts: 68 | Registered: Nov 2013
Chefj9
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cabot. That one is brilliant. So tempting!


ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 472 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
nomistakeaboutit
♂ 36857
Member # 36857
Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or, you could take this angle:

It seems like you have become more spiritual and introspective over the past several years. I am happy for you and your new spirit,,so much so that I wrote you this poem:

"Roses are red.

Violets are blue.

Go fuck yourself you stupid, ignorant bitch."


Me: BH 58.........Her: WW 45
DD: 8..........DS: 5
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

Posts: 968 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: U.S.A.
MediumRare
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Member # 35128
Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"A relationship is for two, but some bitches are too dumb to count."


BS (ME): 44
WS(HER): 42
9 years
OM#1- 20-something loser, stole bunch of my things after she had sex with him in our bed (no condoms, STDs)
OM#2- 24 year old, unemployed loser, lives with mom & dad
DDay 1/2012
NC 3/20/2012
SGASDay 4/1/2012

Posts: 722 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: California
Chefj9
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^ <3 this


ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 472 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
foreverchanged61
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love these!


me:BS-39
Him:WS-39
Married 15 years
DS-14
DD-11
D-Day 11/2010
Trying hard at R
OW 29 (27 then) SAHM pure white trash

Posts: 25 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: South Carolina
7yrsflushed
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Member # 32258
Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This thread is full of awesome! I like them all but mediumrare's has me dying over here.


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
Divorced 9/2/14 and loving life!

Posts: 1943 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
Ascendant
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Member # 38303
Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Roses are red.

Violets are blue.

Go fuck yourself you stupid, ignorant bitch."


Bwahahahahahah.


Other people are not medicine.

Posts: 2304 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: City in the Midwest/Best In The Whole Wide World
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love all these!!!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 676 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
headdesk
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[URL=http://imgur.com/0vFznuI][/URL]

[This message edited by headdesk at 4:48 PM, December 12th (Thursday)]


Me: 39
WH: 42
DDay:Sep 19 2013 (only TT of EA)
Oct 4th 2013 revealed PA through snooping.
Marred 16 years, together for 20. Looking to R at this time. We have awesome kids (12/14).

Posts: 273 | Registered: Sep 2013
Chefj9
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my. That is brilliant. That one I may have to post. Privately of course


ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 472 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
brokendancer7
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, December 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all are so clever! It feels good to laugh!


Me: BS - 58
Him: WS - 56
Married 34 yrs

Latest DD - April 2013, PA


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