Not sure if this should go in General or here.
I went to lunch with a coworker.
She tells me she drove 5.5 hours to say goodbye to her ex who cheated on her and they broke up 2.5 years ago. And, they have no children or proprerty together. He is heading to the sandbox.
I would drive 5.5 hours to head away
from my STBXH. I just don't get it. She is a gorgeous red head. She is sweet, funny, bubbly.
From everything I've read, most of us SIers would walk through fire to avoid avoid avoid. I'm not bitter anymore, but I just don't do betrayel very well, and I don't do victim very well either. What my cheatinass H did to me was so wrong on so many levels, and honestly he deserves an asswhoopin so bad. But I have too much to lose and I don't won't to be a cliche product of my upbringing. So he gets off. But I got it from the jump that he was the f@cked up one.
Did I mention she was a gorgeous redhead????