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User Topic: This cycle is getting old...
♀ 40605
Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 12:26 AM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. Relative normalcy. Functioning in my life.
2. OMG - big- old - triggery - TRIGGER!!
3. Freak out, cry, get mad - whatever the flavor of the day is.
4. WH apologizes, holds me, helps calm me down, answers questions etc.
5. I slowly get my feet back on the ground, might be quick or might take days. Achieve relative normalcy, then...

Repeat, repeat, repeat! Enough already!

On the upside, we're getting pretty good at this after all the practice. Blech.

Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every day

Posts: 698 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
♀ 31528
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I hear you. This crazy rollercoaster is gut wrenching and there is no off button. As time passes the normalcy will last longer and the triggers will be less often. Sending you strength and hope for better days.

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