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Topic: This cycle is getting old...

iwillNOT
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Posted: 12:26 AM, December 13th (Friday), 2013

1. Relative normalcy. Functioning in my life.
2. OMG - big- old - triggery - TRIGGER!!
3. Freak out, cry, get mad - whatever the flavor of the day is.
4. WH apologizes, holds me, helps calm me down, answers questions etc.
5. I slowly get my feet back on the ground, might be quick or might take days. Achieve relative normalcy, then...

Repeat, repeat, repeat! Enough already!

On the upside, we're getting pretty good at this after all the practice. Blech.

Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 560 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest

jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528

Posted: 8:30 AM, December 13th (Friday), 2013

(((iwillNOT)))

I hear you. This crazy rollercoaster is gut wrenching and there is no off button. As time passes the normalcy will last longer and the triggers will be less often. Sending you strength and hope for better days.

Posts: 38288 | Registered: Mar 2011

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