I was at work and contemplating leaving early when all of a sudden a text comes through from exWH with whom I maintain NC except for kid issues. He tells me it would be best to leave now because of the conditions. My assumption is that this text is not for me since we've had 40 storms since he left 3 years ago and he's never once expressed concern for how I get home. So, I say, well, I'm not sure if this was meant for me, but if so, thanks for the warning. He gets back, no, it was meant for you.
That was weird enough but I still figured it was meant for the slunt and he wanted to save face after I questioned. Whatever.
Then, about an hour later, I get another one updating me on the road and weather conditions. Again, I think, this can't be meant for me. He again says, no, I just wanted to let you know how things are out here.
Now I'm convinced he mentally ill. I could see if he had asked about whether the kids were safe in a warm house during the storm, but he made no mention of them. it was all about him making sure I was safe. Plu-ease!
I brushed it off but then thought about how I would feel if I were the slunt. I quickly came to the conclusion that I would be pissed! There's no reason for him to worry about me and my well being. By all accounts, he could give a shit. Now, all of a sudden, he wants to be the hero and the protector?
Again, he's a sicko and she should be wondering what's up with her knight in shining armor. I don't think he would look so shiny anymore...
[This message edited by suckstobeme at 10:22 AM, December 13th (Friday)]
But since OW has no common decency I'm sure she'll be pissed as well!
Just a thought......
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink
Now I'm convinced he mentally ill.
I hear they got it really bad out by him and the surrounding areas.
My commute home was pretty hairy, but it stopped by around 6:30 and the roads were cleared a few hours later.
[This message edited by sparkysable at 11:50 AM, December 13th (Friday)]
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
If you die then he has to be a father 100% of the time. Perhaps he now knows that OW would not be fond of that happening. Therefore he better make sure you live!
^ ^ ^ THIS ^ ^ ^
It was all self serving, I'm sure.
[This message edited by ajsmom at 11:46 AM, December 13th (Friday)]
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!
But, yes, he is loco. And yes, slunty slore would prolly be very, very, very annoyed at her KISA.
It is what it is.
Keep up the good work with NC. I feel so internally happy now, that I swear its making me look younger and better. Maybe he is seeing that in u too.
Funny-- my XWH emailed me about a couple of things about the kids today, and his tone was unusually nice and conversational. My instant thought was: "What's he up to, and what does he want?" Maybe the holidays make them feel sorry for themselves, so they're hoping to get some kibbles from us. Yeah. So not happening. You wanted CommandOwife, and you got her, Ziploc bags and all!
[This message edited by newlysingle at 9:41 PM, December 13th (Friday)]
It has nothing to do with her and so far I haven't noticed any correlation with when he does stupid things. I think most of the stupid things he's done are after arguments with her, to show that he's standing up to me. It fails, because the things he does are stupid. I see it more as him wanting to be "friends" (ugh) with me so he doesn't feel like a terrible person, and because he's probably hanging on to the past a little bit too. I don't think OW was his choice, but that's the bed he made. Too bad, so sad.