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ruby44 (original poster member #41135) posted at 10:00 PM on Friday, December 13th, 2013
to call me to tell me that he took his car in for service and they found a major/expensive problem...have to pull the engine etc.?
I did not answer he leaves me this as a VM. Then 20 minutes later sends me a text did you get my VM?
Really? Could it have to do with the fact that my lawyer called his lawyer to find out why he emptied the bank account and left me with nothing? So my lawyer says we need to show him he is not in control of the purse strings and if he does not agree to temporary maintenance then we will have to go to court. As much as I know it will be expensive he leaves me no choice. I asked him to put money back his response, I pay all the bills and I left you enough for food and gas. REALLY PISSED OFF MY ATTORNEY!
Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.
cl131716 ( member #40699) posted at 12:28 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013
So what was he wanting from you? Money? An "okay, I understand" that he wasn't going to give you maintenance?
None of that is your problem.
Me BS 33 Him WS 37
Together 6 years, married almost 4 years
D-day: 07/23/13 EA with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out about a past kiss
D-day: 05/30/16 Saw first text message from new COW
D-day: 09-08-16 Dr. Fone confirmed EA
ruby44 (original poster member #41135) posted at 2:43 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013
I wanted to tell him cancel your Xmas trip with the OW and you will have the 4 grand to fix your car. But I am not suppose to know about that tem, so could not say that.
Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:29 PM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013
Crickets. That's the only response he deserves. And I hope your lawyer tears him a new arsehold, other than the one that he's boinking.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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