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User Topic: 4th Antiversary - a hopeful message
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't believe it... The 4th Antiversary of our DDay flew by without me even realizing it had happened.

No drama
No anxiety
No triggers

Nothing... it was days later before I'd even remembered that it had passed.

We are doing very well... I would say we are Reconciled.

If you're fresh to Infidelity or been struggling with it for awhile just know that recovery and healing is possible.

FWSO is as committed to healing our relationship as I am... It took a lot of hard work to get to this point and we continue to work on our Relationship daily.

But this is possible!!

I wish Love, Peace and Healing to all my SI family!

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 26002 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
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Member # 40488
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow that's great... Congrats. I am two years in and very down so it's good to hear good news

Me-BS 50 Him-WH 47, DD17
Together since 1993, Married 19 yrs
DDay 3/12,4/12,7/12 EA-PA OW - 25 single husband chasing bastard whore

Posts: 515 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seems as far off as the horizon...thanks for the encouragement.

Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every day

Posts: 698 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, December 13th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for you, Jrc!

"If you want to know who your tribe is, speak your truth, then see who sticks around. Those are the people who get a spot in your blanket fort." -Nanea Hoffman

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