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Cabot posted 12/14/2013 22:20 PM

I have found out that the OM that my wife has been with she was with when we started dating (he was married then also)
So that makes me the OM to her relationship with him then and him the OM to mine my head hurts

IrishLass518 posted 12/14/2013 22:25 PM

Ouch, so sorry Cabot. I have no words for this kind of messed up.

sodamnlost posted 12/14/2013 22:33 PM

So he was cheating on his wife and his AP - your WW and his OW - was cheating on him? That's a crazy picture to wrap your head around for sure.

Cabot posted 12/14/2013 22:44 PM

Oh it gets better over past 4 months WW had 2 AP he was one and she had anouther one so. I used to be OM to him and his A to OW who is now my WW and I am BH and he is OM to my M and my WW is his M OW once again now I also have anouther OM to my M who would also be an OM to his renewed A with my WW. (I think I need a drink)

IrishLass518 posted 12/14/2013 23:17 PM

I think you deserve that drink. That is a whole bunch of OP's to keep track of. I am not sure how you can wrap your head around it all. Are you going to IC? You have a lot of betrayal going on here and a therapist can help you process it all. Try to take care Cabot.

Cabot posted 12/14/2013 23:32 PM

I am in IC only had one sessison so far. It is a lot to handle

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