Wow....did I get a peak into NPDx's head and it is still ugly and CRAZY.
This whole mess was him actively manipulating DD16 and alienating her from me. I held firm boundaries with DD and had severe consequences for continued defiance. NPDx had come to my home and took DD16...he actively refused to support the correct healthy parenting decision and made me look irrational to DD16. He was dangling a fun, fabulous event in front of her and having a lot of glee from seeing his kid feed his own ego. Heck with what is best for DD16.
I also asked her beloved coach for help, and she stepped right up to the plate. It does take a village to raise a kid. My precious DD16 came home yesterday and began mending the mess she created.
I was texting NPDx , which I rarely do (5.5 years divorced) and he said:
You lost a husband, you lost one daughter and now you are working on loosing the other daughter.
OMG, I filed for divorce. I threw him out. I unloaded the anchor that was trying to drown me and the kids. LOL He really believes I lost him! It says he is the respondent on all the divorce docs and how can he ignore all that? Wow just wow. Just shows the power of a delusional mind. He has had several incidents like this where he has completely rewritten history even though there is documentation. Scary
He is also telling me he plans to try and get both girls alienated from me. And the alienation is all my doing.
Back to NC for me.....glad I had a peak into how much more disturbed NPDx is. I guess in my case, it is right, people like him get worse with age. And now I see he is still very dangerous to me because he will stop at nothing to punish me.