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 Daisy1967 (original poster member #41627) posted at 4:01 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013

I have to wonder if some of the BS are somehow on a punishment kick? Revenge.

All I know is that no matter what I have ever done or not done, it has never ever been good enough for DH. Now that I fucked up majorly, two years ago, he goes from acting sort of normal to absolutely abusive and acts like I deserve to pay and pay and pay, over the A.

If we are so bad, just divorce us, please.

And yes, I know what I did. I just don't think that paying for it the rest of my life is warranted or even fair, especially considering the way he treated me before and after the A. Hell, even criminals get a definite sentence.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 6:18 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013

You have a choice in this as well. Why do you/did you stay?

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 9:34 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013

Daisy,

I saw in your other post that your BH has threatened you and your son with physical violence. Are you safe now? Are you able to get to a safe place?

AN

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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RuinedEverything ( new member #36758) posted at 12:24 AM on Monday, December 16th, 2013

I honestly feel the exact way you do.

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 Daisy1967 (original poster member #41627) posted at 12:39 AM on Monday, December 16th, 2013

He did not threaten my son. My son just happened to witness the stuff.

I am safe. He just enjoys telling me how I am mean to the kids and mocking me always. Being angry with me for no reason. No matter what I do or don't never ever good enough.

I am seeing an attorney next Month.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:42 AM on Monday, December 16th, 2013

I'm glad you are taking steps to get out of your abusive situation.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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