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Williesmom (original poster member #22870) posted at 4:32 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
One of Wxh's friend does snow plowing. I'm having a home emergency, and called him to come plow my driveway this weekend.
Since the D, we have talked periodically-usually when he needs something. So, yesterday as we talked about the snow plowing, he said "I haven't seen Williesdad for several years. I talk to you waaaay more often."
Apparently, during the D, wxh was telling this friend how controlling I was (because I expected him to work and not chase other women). After the D, this friend spent an afternoon with wxh and his new bar whore/girlfriend. Apparently, she sat on her ass and barked orders while wxh jumped to her orders.
Friend said, "Williesdad, what are you doing? That chick is nuts. You fucked up a really good life with williesmom, and she's done with you, but you can't have a life with BarWhore."
I think that I never realized how awesome my friends are- even the fringe ones. 
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:06 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
That's awesome, WM.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 6:20 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
Williesdad
I'm sorry, but your ex is doesn't even deserve to share your name. I 
in my mouth a little when I read that.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 8:48 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
I've had similar experiences with his "friends", and while I'm glad they get it, I still always find it sad that he can't, or won't, see how his behavior has alienated so many who care about him. But, it is no longer my problem, so I don't dwell on it.
Good for you WM.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
Williesmom (original poster member #22870) posted at 9:46 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
AMA- thanks! Your made me laugh.
However, willies was his dog. That poor dog missed him more than i did when we split up. We both deserved better from him.
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You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 10:03 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
I think most of x's friends hate me because I kicked his ass in the divorce. Whatever. 
Only one of my Irish cousins still speaks to him. The rest, not so much.
[This message edited by FaithFool at 4:03 PM, December 15th (Sunday)]
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Williesmom (original poster member #22870) posted at 10:12 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
Faith- very funny! No reason for us to tone it down at that point. We kick ass every single day. 
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 11:20 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
That conversation must have been a nice validation.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Williesmom (original poster member #22870) posted at 11:28 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
It was validating for me, but I already knew what a nice life we had.
The best part is that my new life is even better.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 11:57 PM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013
Well, of course you got his friends in the D.
He's a jagoff.
Who wants to be friends with a jagoff?
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Harriet ( member #34543) posted at 12:15 AM on Monday, December 16th, 2013
Yay, Williesmom! That must have been nice to hear. I don't think most of my exes friends know the whole story. Those that have heard through the grapevine are pretty horrified and tell me so.
D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12
Starfish1973 ( new member #41389) posted at 2:21 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2013
Lol. I am not D (yet) but WH did tell his BF about his A.
Immediately, BF told him how wrong and stupid he was, and I have noticed how much nicer BF is to me now.
Beauty!
Married 11 years. Together for 14
Female, age 40. WH is 47.
DD, aged 6
Found out about affair November 1, 2013
Info is only trickling in :-( it was a long affair.
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