Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-

SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: newbieneedshelp (54403)

User Topic: I even got his friends in the D
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of Wxh's friend does snow plowing. I'm having a home emergency, and called him to come plow my driveway this weekend.

Since the D, we have talked periodically-usually when he needs something. So, yesterday as we talked about the snow plowing, he said "I haven't seen Williesdad for several years. I talk to you waaaay more often."

Apparently, during the D, wxh was telling this friend how controlling I was (because I expected him to work and not chase other women). After the D, this friend spent an afternoon with wxh and his new bar whore/girlfriend. Apparently, she sat on her ass and barked orders while wxh jumped to her orders.

Friend said, "Williesdad, what are you doing? That chick is nuts. You fucked up a really good life with williesmom, and she's done with you, but you can't have a life with BarWhore."

I think that I never realized how awesome my friends are- even the fringe ones.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8879 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome, WM.


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36468 | Registered: Aug 2011
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Williesdad

I'm sorry, but your ex is doesn't even deserve to share your name. I in my mouth a little when I read that.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14410 | Registered: Jul 2011
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've had similar experiences with his "friends", and while I'm glad they get it, I still always find it sad that he can't, or won't, see how his behavior has alienated so many who care about him. But, it is no longer my problem, so I don't dwell on it.

Good for you WM.


Me: BW-45
Him: XWH-45

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 5159 | Registered: Mar 2011
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AMA- thanks! Your made me laugh.

However, willies was his dog. That poor dog missed him more than i did when we split up. We both deserved better from him.

[This message edited by Williesmom at 3:46 PM, December 15th (Sunday)]


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8879 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think most of x's friends hate me because I kicked his ass in the divorce. Whatever.

Only one of my Irish cousins still speaks to him. The rest, not so much.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 4:03 PM, December 15th (Sunday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 19704 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Faith- very funny! No reason for us to tone it down at that point. We kick ass every single day.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8879 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That conversation must have been a nice validation.


Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was validating for me, but I already knew what a nice life we had.

The best part is that my new life is even better.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 8879 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, of course you got his friends in the D.
He's a jagoff.
Who wants to be friends with a jagoff?


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4958 | Registered: Jan 2012
Harriet
♀ 34543
Member # 34543
Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, December 15th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, Williesmom! That must have been nice to hear. I don't think most of my exes friends know the whole story. Those that have heard through the grapevine are pretty horrified and tell me so.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 685 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
Starfish1973
41389
Member # 41389
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol. I am not D (yet) but WH did tell his BF about his A.

Immediately, BF told him how wrong and stupid he was, and I have noticed how much nicer BF is to me now.

Beauty!


Married 11 years. Together for 14
Female, age 40. WH is 47.
DD, aged 6
Found out about affair November 1, 2013
Info is only trickling in :-( it was a long affair.

Posts: 15 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Canada
Topic Posts: 12

Return to Forum This Topic is Archived
adultry
madness  
© 2002 - 2016 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.