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HurtsButImOK posted 12/16/2013 03:10 AM

First, hugs to all still going through S/D. Its a f'n painful process.

I am now free, got the sealed orders in the post today! Just over one year from DD, 1year + 6 days from originally agreeing the financial settlement which he, of course, reneged on.

Lots of acquired brain damage later because I thought we could do it amicably its finally over. That messed up selfish SOB is finally out of my life. FOR GOOD! 7 days remaining to finalize the transactions, then its all over red rover.

2013 you almost had me. Such joy in learning and living this new life, such equally contrasting moments of pain and despair. Did you really only last 1year? You went by so fast yet seemed to last so long. Unfortunately my sweet 2013 you cant compete with the first douche free year since 1996. Welcome 2014, I am looking forward to all you have to bring.

A big thanks to all on SI for the strength, hugs and advice so freely given by so many with such enormous hearts.

There is still healing to do, but its okay, I can feel the sunshine now.

Bluebird26 posted 12/16/2013 04:36 AM

Great news. Enjoy your new life of freedom!

lisaloo posted 12/16/2013 08:15 AM

What a MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY New Year you just got!!

Chrysalis123 posted 12/16/2013 08:25 AM

Merry Christmas and Congratulations!!!

nowiknow23 posted 12/16/2013 08:42 AM

There is still healing to do, but its okay, I can feel the sunshine now.

Spelljean posted 12/16/2013 09:23 AM

Congrats! Here's to a brand new life!

MovingUpward posted 12/16/2013 09:27 AM

Congratulations!

WeepingBuddhist posted 12/16/2013 09:30 AM

Good for you! Happy New Year!

Must Survive posted 12/16/2013 10:05 AM

This is me hitting the Like Button (((((hit))))

I wish the best for your New Year!

SBB posted 12/16/2013 12:47 PM

There is still healing to do, but its okay, I can feel the sunshine now.

LOVE this. Love it.

I'm right there behind you, friend. Just waiting on the papers.

WOOWHOO!!

FaithFool posted 12/16/2013 13:06 PM

Yeah, love it!

tryingagain74 posted 12/16/2013 20:12 PM

Yeee-haah! Congrats! Enjoy your freedom, and make sure that you celebrate the new year and your NB!

caregiver9000 posted 12/16/2013 20:22 PM

It is good to go into a new year with this news!!

Congrats.

HurtsButImOK posted 12/17/2013 02:50 AM

thank you for the congrats. I cant stop smiling.

I feel like a huge weight has been lifted, like the last year was spent in financial limbo and I was powerless to make any major changes and decisions incase it ended up in court.

Thank you all again for being here, you all rock!

Dawn58 posted 12/17/2013 08:07 AM

Congrats to you!! I know 2014 will bring wonderful things to you!

I am still waiting for mediation. My STBX astounds me with the lies he still spews.....I have to remember that he is a liar, plain and simple. I will be so glad to be out of this limbo state I have been in for over a year now.

Here's to new beginnings!!!!

tesla posted 12/17/2013 16:47 PM

Congratulations!

brightsidegirl posted 12/17/2013 22:19 PM

Yea! I'm jealous that you get to start the new year a free woman! Enjoy the hell out of that freedom!!!

dmari posted 12/18/2013 01:22 AM

Another one of our D/S friends are FREE!! Yahoo!! I'm throwing confetti!! I'm so jealous you can start 2013 fresh fresh fresh!!

Laura28 posted 12/18/2013 04:32 AM

Hi honey.

Congrats.
I truly hope 2014 brings a wonderful new life for you.

HUGS

Laura