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User Topic: holidaze
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Stop  Posted: 9:55 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so close to Christmas and everybody seems to be merrying but me

It's our first Christmas after DDay and my bluest in life ever. I am not even sure if my BH will be spending the holidays with me. Sad sad sad

Happy Holidays SI ... is anyone unmerrying with me? How do you plan to celebrate, if that's even an appropriate term to use

Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I'm sorry you're struggling right now, I know the first holiday season can be so emotional. I hope you can find some joy in doing something that makes you feel good.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Deeply Scared

Hope you will have fun this holidays too ..

I will try

Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm right there with you, helplessme. Our first Christmas was kind of a blur, and I'm definitely feeling the blues now. Hold on. It does get better. I promise.

Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2014/12/23

Posts: 810 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
♀ 41598
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Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



Thank you for letting me know it's going to be better. I'm so devastated. I can not even plan for Christmas celebration. I pity my kids.

Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013
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