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helplessme posted 12/16/2013 21:55 PM

It's so close to Christmas and everybody seems to be merrying but me

It's our first Christmas after DDay and my bluest in life ever. I am not even sure if my BH will be spending the holidays with me. Sad sad sad

Happy Holidays SI ... is anyone unmerrying with me? How do you plan to celebrate, if that's even an appropriate term to use

Deeply Scared posted 12/17/2013 10:40 AM

Helpless...

I'm sorry you're struggling right now, I know the first holiday season can be so emotional. I hope you can find some joy in doing something that makes you feel good.

helplessme posted 12/17/2013 21:31 PM

Thank you Deeply Scared

Hope you will have fun this holidays too ..

I will try

KBeguile posted 12/17/2013 22:02 PM

I'm right there with you, helplessme. Our first Christmas was kind of a blur, and I'm definitely feeling the blues now. Hold on. It does get better. I promise.

helplessme posted 12/18/2013 00:55 AM

Kbeguile,

Promise?

Thank you for letting me know it's going to be better. I'm so devastated. I can not even plan for Christmas celebration. I pity my kids.