Topic: My New Beginning is official
Member # 38735
| Posted: 10:57 PM, December 16th (Monday), 2013|
So, I knew as soon as I filed for D that I would be heading back to school. I have a liberal arts degree which is no good for actually finding employment. So, I'm looking to go into the medical field. I just signed up for my first class in the Spring. I'm so nervous about going back to school. It's been about 14 years since I graduated with my first degree! I'm starting out slow, but still nervous about juggling it all.
BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
Posts: 1212 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 27148
| Posted: 12:25 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congrats and good for you!!!!!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 3655 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 30346
| Posted: 6:41 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
I went back to school too…it is different than the "first go 'round", but I've found I am a much better student!
You can do it!
me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Posts: 4608 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Member # 37777
| Posted: 6:55 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Good for you. I too went back to school in my late 30's. it was much more enjoyable. Great way to move foreward. Best of luck.
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Posts: 314 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: NY
Member # 3903
| Posted: 7:03 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
You can do this!! It really is different after you have had some real life experience. I went back to school at 52. It has been wonderful.
Good for you!
There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
Posts: 2018 | Registered: Mar 2004
Member # 33226
| Posted: 7:38 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown
Posts: 35679 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 35214
| Posted: 11:00 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
I took a 'semester off' from pursuing my Bachelor's when my second child was born... 13 years later I finished it, at the age of 40.
Now I am six classes away from getting my MBA with Accounting concentration.
I know from personal experience that going back after so long can be a scary thing. But it's AWESOME you're taking that leap!! And you'll do great!!! Just believe in YOU honey!!
Me: BS(45)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(52). D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/13. Divorced 1/10/14.
New chapter of my life- married 11/13/15 to the man I'd thought I would never find.
Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.
Posts: 443 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
Member # 24210
| Posted: 11:08 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Best advice I got when I went back was NOT to compare yourself/grade/study habits with what you did last go-round.
In many case, you did not have the same challenges and stressors as today (divorce, kids, etc).
He told us not to focus on being the best....but focus on being the best you can be at this point of your life.
Don't get me wrong - I did not take it as an excust to be lax. I still went through my D, took accelerated program, running my house single, FT job, battling the stalker ex and raising 2 kids and stayed on the Dean's List the entire time. BUT when I was freakin' over stuff.....I remembered what he said and cut myself some slack.
[This message edited by EvenKeel at 11:09 AM, December 17th (Tuesday)]
Broken crayons still color...
Posts: 3810 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
Member # 26367
| Posted: 11:13 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Congrats!!! That's wonderful!
I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s
Posts: 2057 | Registered: Nov 2009
Member # 40229
| Posted: 11:25 AM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013|
Calls for a celebration. I'm bringing some wine and champagne to the party!
That's what I call starting off the New Year RIGHT!!!
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB
Posts: 3588 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
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