If this isn't a NB then I'm not sure what is!! I'm happy every day….I still need to divorce the idiot, but next year that will happen…..what will be will be.
He's still with the OW, and I'm actually happy that she now has to deal with NPD and not I….silver linings!!
Divorcing - at last!
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
I think the day you realize you didn't remember your antiversary should have its own name, like the It'sOfficialINoLongerFuckingCareVersary
It's nice to see the light and smile every day now too and, although I still sometimes get sad, I too am glad that OW - who he is also still with -gets to deal with him in all his glory. I, on the other hand, get to be in charge of my own house, my own money, and my own destiny. She gets to deal with his laziness, his passive aggressive behavior, his disrespect, his talent of lying by omission, his under the breath insults, his crazy-ass mentally ill family members, his alcohol problems, his horrible gift giving, and his shoddy parenting skills. Oh, and best of all, she gets his ego that is bigger than life and that which prevents him from EVER being wrong.
Have fun with that Slutty McPiggerson!
The best bit too is I don't have a new SO either! I'm just happy with me…I'd love to meet someone, and have tried OLD, but really, right at this time, life is good
ExWH doesn't really bother me anymore either - he may message me about the kids, and I respond politely, without a care in the world!! It was a long, hard process, but I got there…and next year is going to be even better!!
I worked so hard not to affiliate any date to DD, S or D... it was hard but I have a ballpark month instead to help me when the antiversary roles around. Can't wait to be in your shoes!