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User Topic: More truthyness . . .
Lola7
♀ 41195
Member # 41195
Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a difference a few days makes!

I’ve neglected my email until today, so while I’m in my mailbox, I see I received an email from a friend of STBXH. He said he’s sorry that we are splitting up and that he always liked me. Then he says, “I love him like a brother, but I don’t understand why he does the shit he does.” I told him thank you and that I appreciated his email, but it actually makes me feel kind of icky, because I can imagine the shit STBXH is saying about me and/or our marriage. This guy stood up in our wedding. He knows me, and knows X better than I do.

It was nice to get an email from him, because I always liked this friend of his. Always seemed like a decent person and a reliable family man. At least someone on his side of the world sounds as baffled as I am.

But anyway, full steam ahead. Things I’ve learned so far:

• Prozac is good.
• Compulsive liars, lie compulsively
• Your STBXH sees nothing wrong with filing to divorce you while extolling the virtues of penis enhancing pills; i.e. “I want you to see this", "I hate sleeping alone", or "We never had problems in that department!”
• Your STBXH only likes it when you are sad. If you are happy, it throws off his momentum, and he’ll need to pull someone else in to feed off of.
• When you meet someone, pay close attention to what they say, and who they blame. Most importantly, take a good unvarnished look at their history. Their history is their truth.
• Anyone who says "I have been looking for someone my whole life and have found it with you", or "without you baby I’m not me", or "I would rather put a bullet in my head then lose you", probably suffer from some type of personality disorder. Also, they have a bad speech writer who needs to be fired immediately.
• Nobody “accidentally” signs up for Match.com
• Oh and my favorite for the OW: If he has had affairs in the past or left previous relationships in a similar way, even if you were the one for whom he left his last wife. That's the strongest predictor that he has what it takes to do that again.

So enjoy. Sleep tight, and don’t say I didn’t warn you.


caelitus mihi vires
"My strength is from heaven"
DIVORCED!

Posts: 211 | Registered: Nov 2013
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a difference a few days makes!

Absolutely! No matter how hard some times have been there's always been an upswing on this damned roller coaster.

Oh and my favorite for the OW: If he has had affairs in the past or left previous relationships in a similar way, even if you were the one for whom he left his last wife. That's the strongest predictor that he has what it takes to do that again.

All of these OPs are 'special' dontchaknow? As described in "She's Special"....

http://psychopathyawareness.wordpress.com/2011/12/20/a-vain-fantasy-his-one-true-love-the-exception-that-confirms-the-rule/


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5656 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

• Nobody “accidentally” signs up for Match.com


LOL....OMG the things they say with a straight face....


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2770 | Registered: Jan 2010
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like your list!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5906 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, December 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nobody “accidentally” signs up for Match.com


So true!!!

I was so stupid, blinded by my rose-colored glasses, that I actually swallowed the shit sandwich named, "I don't know why I keep getting emails from "Fuckbook". I don't know why they know my name. I don't even know what it is! That kind of thing is digusting. I would never do something like that!"


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10012 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Rainbows
♀ 39362
Member # 39362
Default  Posted: 1:20 AM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haha, great list. Are we taking the same class?



There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 414 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
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