Topic: On Behalf of B.M.C. 0415
Member # 17460
| Posted: 12:14 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Please keep our good friend BMC0415 in your thoughts and prayers.
She’s on an awful road right now with a very sick grandson and her father both in the hospital and could really use some SI love, hugs and support.
Her precious baby boy has a very bad case of pneumonia and has been put on oxygen. He is not responding as they’ve hoped and his vital signs are lowering when he sleeps.
He father had a heart attack on Monday and he will be having open heart surgery either today or tomorrow.
As you know, she lost a precious granddaughter last year and is fearful fate is reappearing.
Any prayers and good thoughts you can spare would be appreciated.
Thank you all!
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Member # 18449
| Posted: 12:16 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
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Member # 14866
| Posted: 12:16 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
Member # 33226
| Posted: 12:21 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sending everything I've got. ((((BMC & family))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40041 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 25341
| Posted: 12:26 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this ((((BMC))))
Sending strength and positive, healing thoughts to her and her family.
Me (BS), Him (WH): mid-50's
3 DS: 23, 23, 19
M: 28 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 33
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen
Posts: 6044 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 20152
| Posted: 12:34 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
I remember BMC very well.
Holding her and her family in my thoughts today. ((((BMC))))
BS (me):44 WS (him):42
Married 3.5 years, together 5.5
D-Day #1 - 2/10/16
D-Day #2 - 2/20/16
D-Day #3 - 5/27/16, different woman
H is asking for R. I don't know what I want.
Posts: 722 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: The Chesapeake Bay
Member # 25001
| Posted: 12:36 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sending prayers and strength to BMC and her family
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 33338
| Posted: 12:43 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to hear this. I was just thinking of her the other day. She is a truly beautiful person with such a huge heart. I will keep her and her family in my prayers.
Me, 50. (How did THAT happen??)
Him, 42 (JMSSC)
married 20 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 3887 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Member # 30369
| Posted: 1:01 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
(((((BMC and Family)))))
Posts: 30027 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 31528
| Posted: 1:06 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Saying prayers and keeping her family in my thoughts.
Posts: 49721 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 32811
| Posted: 1:31 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sending Angels and prayers...
H of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.
Posts: 2690 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 34823
| Posted: 1:35 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Oh no. BMC has such a compassionate and generous heart.
****strength and healing vibes****
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Posts: 9187 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 16237
| Posted: 1:46 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
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Member # 14918
| Posted: 2:03 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
Posts: 1571 | Registered: Jun 2007
Member # 11692
| Posted: 2:51 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sending you all lots of healing mojo (((BMC)))
Me - BW
Him - WH
Posts: 6621 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 14576
| Posted: 3:00 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
BMC, I will be praying for you, your precious grandson, and your beloved father. May God wrap you in his arms and give you strength and comfort.
Me - 52; FWH - 54
Married 34 years 9/2/17
2 grown daughters-33 & 30
7yo GS,4yo GD & 2yo. GD (DD33) and 4 yo GD & new GD born 7/1/16(DD30). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.
Posts: 5965 | Registered: May 2007
Member # 31240
| Posted: 3:02 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
(((BMC & family)))
fBH (me) - 70+, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's all I know.
Posts: 15764 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
Member # 7168
| Posted: 3:31 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sending prayers that God's hand will be over you all through this, that healing will be quick, and that you will feel his comfort during this very scary time.
I'm hoping single and happy will be a better color on me than monogamy was on him.
Posts: 8014 | Registered: May 2005
Member # 18179
| Posted: 5:13 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sending her tons of good thoughts and strength to (hopefully) help in this scary time.
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
Posts: 4179 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
Member # 16024
| Posted: 5:55 PM, December 18th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sending loving thoughts to BMC and her family.
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
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