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 ajsmom (original poster member #17460) posted at 6:14 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Please keep our good friend BMC0415 in your thoughts and prayers.

She’s on an awful road right now with a very sick grandson and her father both in the hospital and could really use some SI love, hugs and support.

Her precious baby boy has a very bad case of pneumonia and has been put on oxygen. He is not responding as they’ve hoped and his vital signs are lowering when he sleeps.

He father had a heart attack on Monday and he will be having open heart surgery either today or tomorrow.

As you know, she lost a precious granddaughter last year and is fearful fate is reappearing.

Any prayers and good thoughts you can spare would be appreciated.

Thank you all!

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:16 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

(((((((((BMC0415)))))))))

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 6:16 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Sending prayers

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:21 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Sending everything I've got. ((((BMC & family))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:26 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this ((((BMC))))

Sending strength and positive, healing thoughts to her and her family.

((((BMC))))

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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Fireball72 ( member #20152) posted at 6:34 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

I remember BMC very well.

Holding her and her family in my thoughts today. ((((BMC))))

BS (me):44 (now 52) WS (him):42 (now 50)Married 3.5 years, together 5.5 D-Day #1 - 2/10/16 #2 - 2/20/16 #3 - 5/27/16 Divorced 6/12/17 One daughter, 9, the light of my life. Finally happy.

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 6:36 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Sending prayers and strength to BMC and her family

(((HUGS)))

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 6:43 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to hear this. I was just thinking of her the other day. She is a truly beautiful person with such a huge heart. I will keep her and her family in my prayers.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 7:01 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

(((((BMC and Family)))))

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:06 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

(((BMC)))

Saying prayers and keeping her family in my thoughts.

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Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 7:31 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Sending Angels and prayers...

Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.

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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 7:35 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Oh no. BMC has such a compassionate and generous heart.

****strength and healing vibes****

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Kodi ( member #16237) posted at 7:46 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

(((BMC)))

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 8:03 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Prayers!

Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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dazdandconfuzed ( member #11692) posted at 8:51 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Sending you all lots of healing mojo (((BMC)))

Me - BW
Him - WH

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 9:00 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

BMC, I will be praying for you, your precious grandson, and your beloved father. May God wrap you in his arms and give you strength and comfort.

Many hugs,

Lala

2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 9:02 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

(((BMC & family)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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truthsetmefree ( member #7168) posted at 9:31 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

(((((BMC)))))

Sending prayers that God's hand will be over you all through this, that healing will be quick, and that you will feel his comfort during this very scary time.

Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo

Funny thing, I quit being broken when I quit letting people break me.

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sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 11:13 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

((((BMC0415))))

Sending her tons of good thoughts and strength to (hopefully) help in this scary time.

You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:55 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013

Sending loving thoughts to BMC and her family.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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