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				    				 okaynow (original poster  member #13813)		posted at 9:40 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	If you could go anywhere, where would it be and why? 
 
 
	DH and I are thinking about where to go on our (little bit late) honeymoon.  He has travelled the world but travel is new to me.  Where would you want to go? 
 
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				    				MovingUpward ( member #14866)		posted at 10:07 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	Favorite place that I've been is Hawaii.  The place I would most like to go right now is New Zealand and Australia 
 
			 	 			
				    				TrulyReconciled ( member #3031)		posted at 10:09 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	Peru/Machu Picchu/Galapagos Islands  
 
 
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				    				Rebreather ( member #30817)		posted at 10:14 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	I would go back to Paris. Right now. I would get up from my desk and go home for my passport and go to the airport. Bye! 
 
 
	I also love Mexico. 
 
 
	But, our next trip is likely to be taking the kids to some Caribbean destination, and hopefully DH and I will be going to Germany in the next couple of years. 
 
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				    				Newlease ( member #7767)		posted at 10:14 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	I've never been, but it is my dream to go to Bali and stay in one of those huts over the water with the glass floors.  It looks like heaven to me. 
 
 
	NL 
 
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				    				abbycadabby ( member #27428)		posted at 10:17 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	I'd pick Ireland/Scotland combo.  Just because I've always wanted to go there, dream trip, etc. 
 
 
	Some other places I'd like to visit: 
 
 
	Alaska 
 
 
	Hawaii 
 
 
	Greece 
 
 
	Italy 
 
 
	Germany 
 
 
	England 
 
 
	NYC 
 
 
	Yellowstone 
 
 
	Grand Canyon 
 
 
	Among others.  I want to travel extensively but haven't yet. 
 
 
	Have fun!! 
 
			 		 			
				    				somanyyears ( member #26970)		posted at 10:21 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	..back to Paris..in a heartbeat! ..and London too. 
 
 
	..Negril Jamaica is next on the list of favorites. 
 
 
	smy 
 
 
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				    				frigidfire86 ( member #32324)		posted at 10:29 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	We're going to Venice, Pisa, and Milan next week and I can't wait.   
   In July, when my in-laws visit, we're heading back to Italy to see Rome.  If my mom makes it over here before we PCS we want to go on a Baltic cruise to Scotland, Ireland and Iceland. 
 
 
	Other than Europe, I want to go somewhere tropical.  I'm not picky where,  just a place I can relax on a beach and do nothing. 
 
			 		 			
				    				Dreamboat ( member #10506)		posted at 11:01 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	Bora Bora 
 
 
	I always wanted to go there. 
 
 
	Second choice might be the Maldives.  I work with a fellow who is going there in a couple of weeks on his honeymoon.  I am jealous! 
 
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				    				NotDefeatedYet ( member #33642)		posted at 11:11 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	You can do an Ireland vacation where the first few nights are in a quaint little cottage. The next few nights are in a big bed and breakfast type thing. The last few nights are in a castle. It's a really awesome vacation. 
 
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				    				spond ( member #41686)		posted at 11:14 PM on Wednesday, December 18th, 2013	
			 
	totally with dreamboat on this one Bora Bora, with a close 2nd being Tahiti. 
 
 
	Now on to trips we could afford. If would be back to the Caribbean. Love them beaches!!! 
 
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				    				Chrysalis123 ( member #27148)		posted at 12:16 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	How does one find an Ireland vacation like that?   Is it a tour company?
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				    				jrc1963 ( member #26531)		posted at 12:17 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	Of all the places I've actually been... 
 
 
	I'd go back to London, England.  I'd love to see it again as an adult.  We went as a school trip when I was a Junior in HS. 
 
 
	Places I've never been would be Tahiti or Bora Bora or Australia. 
 
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				    				Weatherly ( member #18222)		posted at 12:34 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	So far, in the summer I like Montana. (Specifically Glacier National Park). The rest of the time? Cozumel. 
 
 
	ETA: You asked why... I thought Glacier was absolutely gorgeous. I couldn't get enough pictures or explore enough. Hiking and white water rafting were a blast. 
 
 
	Cozumel, it was warm, the beaches were beautiful. We didn't get to spend near enough time there.
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				    				deeplysad ( member #16590)		posted at 12:39 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	Yellowstone.  We like to travel in our motorhome so we can take the dogs with us and Yellowstone is by far my favorite place. 
 
 
	Hope to go again next year!! 
 
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				    				Sad in AZ ( member #24239)		posted at 6:53 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	Oz--aka Australia.  Because 9 out of the 10 deadliest snakes in the world live there.  
  
  
 
 
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				    				Bluebird26 ( member #36445)		posted at 9:14 AM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	Yep come visit us in Australia. 
 
 
	
Oz--aka Australia. Because 9 out of the 10 deadliest snakes in the world live there
 
 
 
 
	
 Yes this is true.  Where I live we have about 6 of them.  Don't forget the spiders too.  
 
 
 
	We do have nice stuff too though. 
 
 
	My dream holiday would be a safari in Africa.  It's on the bucket list. 
 
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				    				TennisTC ( member #41330)		posted at 8:49 PM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	I'm with newlease and some of the others - my absolute dream would be Tahiti, Bora Bora, or Bali in a private hut out over the water. 
 
 
	Favorite places I've actually been - Greece (I studied abroad there and was fortunate enough to visit many places there). And I've been all over the caribbean, and some of my favorite picks are the Cayman Islands, St. Kitts, Dominica (great for Eco-tourism), and St. Thomas. 
 
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				    				Ariabook ( member #39669)		posted at 8:51 PM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	Paris or Canada. I also would like to rent a cabin somewhere, just don't know where. 
 
			 		 			
				    				NotDefeatedYet ( member #33642)		posted at 11:45 PM on Thursday, December 19th, 2013	
			 
	
 How does one find an Ireland vacation like that? Is it a tour company?
 
 
 
	I would suggest going through a travel agent, but there are a few companies that offer vacation packages like that. 
 
 
	www.authenticireland.com/tours/view/From-Cottage-to-Castle/ 
 
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